well im in middle schoola nd this guy that i liek is in high school im a 8th grader hes a 10th grader and all he wants to do is get in ym pants and i dont want to do it i like him in all but that will ruien my rep plz help
2006-10-06 02:45:42 · 22 answers · asked by mgfizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously this boy just wants sex and he will say and do anything to get it. If you give in and have sex with him not only will he not respect you he will leave you when he finally gets all he wants. Then he will talk about you. Not a good situation. DO not have SEX with him. Find someone else. Enjoy being a kid. Sex will come in the future when you are more mature. If a guy really likes you he will not hound you about sex and will enjoy just being with you and doing fun things. Best of Luck. Don't DO IT!! you will regret it!!
2006-10-06 02:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by sam04m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are too young too be worrying about a guy that has ABSOLUTELY no interest in you!! He is in the 10th and you better believe that when he is done, he'll act just like he doesn't know you and your name will be "mud". Also, scroll up and look at what CLOUD43 left, he or she has a perfect point. While you are putting so much time in to this young man, you should, no,,you NEED to be a lot more focused on your spelling. Im not being funny but thats like a 5 year old, knowing all the words to 50 cent song and not all of their abc's... undersand what im saying?
2006-10-06 10:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, is right.... You are in 8th grade? So you are what 13 or 14? That is way too young to be thinking about him getting into your pants. You should be worrying about makeup and clothes and growing up right now. Life comes fast, so slow down when you can, and at this point in your life you can slow down. Take it from a Mother of an 8 year old boy and 9 year old girl.
2006-10-06 09:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by wallcritter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heaven forbid you "ruien your rep" !!
Let's see if we can help you with something a person in the 8th. grade SHOULD be worrying about.
"Well, I'm in middle school and this guy whom I like is in high school. I'm an 8th. grader, he's a 10th. grader and all he wants to do is get in my pants and I don't want to do it. I like him and all but, that would ruin my rep. Please help.
2006-10-06 09:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by cloud43 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep telling him no and know that you are right you give in the chances are that so will your rep. You are doing the right thing and a boy who only wants in your pants in not worth having
2006-10-06 09:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. He should respect you enough to listen and abide by your morals and values. If he keeps trying to persist dump him and stay away. You can do better and besides if this is already what he is wanting then the feeling that I gather is that once you give it to him and he has what he wants he will leave you and go try to find someone else to give it to him. Trust your instincts, follow your heart, Dont do it
2006-10-06 10:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by baby j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL,,DONT DO IT. its really simple. He shouldnt be trying to go out with an 8th grader in the first place! JUST SAY NO!
2006-10-06 09:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in because you like him. Sex is something that is very special between husband and wife. Love yourself first and I know you will make the right decision. Respect yourself enough to wait.
2006-10-06 10:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Purple Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no because after he does he will move on to the next.
2006-10-06 09:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by MCS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should avoid guys like him. They only want to use you, then leave you when they've got what they've wanted.
2006-10-06 09:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Matilda g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋