when a single women knows a man is seperated from his wife they become friends and start messing around .because she listens to him.what happens when he decides to go back to his wife and she calls the wife and say they were having an affair while they were seperated.
2006-10-06 02:42:27 · 19 answers · asked by holla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What happens is that he's "single" once again.
2006-10-06 02:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They were talking about this on the radio this morning. Apparently this has been studied by psychologist. To women, a man that is already taken makes a great hunt. It releases chemicals in their brains that gets them more excited. They also think that since this man is taken he must be an A so why settle for the single men, which are C's (that is their way of thinking). I don't think that every single man out there is a C. There could be A's waiting to be discovered. Now with the separation of men, the woman feels sorry for the man and she thinks she can make him happy. The man is getting all this attention, which he probably isn't getting from home, which led him to stray in the first place. (But not in all cases, some men are just dogs) That is why I think it's so important to keep a honest and open relationship. Share your feelings with one another. Keep your marriage exciting. So neither one will want to stray for something that there not getting from home. If he strayed and he realizes what he has done, he goes back to his wife. The woman is now pis*** and she calls the wife hoping that the wife will kick him out for good and then she can have him. Too much drama for me.
2006-10-06 03:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Xena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What happens? Probably a lot of screaming and fighting. Why do single women cheat with married men, because it is more of a challenge and girls always want what they dont get. If you are the single woman please do not call the wife and tell her that you are having an affair, homewreckers are not good role models. If you are the wife, you need to set an agreement with your husband that he never sees this woman again and maybe take a vacation and get your relationship back to the good old days. Especially if you have children. Good luck!
2006-10-06 02:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, because dating a married man is considered safe. Plus there's a little bit of an ego. He's married, yet he's choosing to be with me, kind of thing too. It comes from fear of commitment and immaturity. The immaturity shows when they call the wife. They aren't calling because they are concerned about the wife, they call because they lost the competition and want to hurt the relationship, so the man will lose both women.
2006-10-06 02:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my home state, a separation is license to do as one darn well pleases regarding forming new relationships. Legally, either the guy or the gal can have as many affairs as they like while separated and the courts will not accept that as "cheating" or infidelity. In fact, that happened to me. After my wife demanded a separation, I found another, had many months of wild, unrelenting sex, and then the new lady got annoyed and I went back home. The new lady called my wife and told her in detail what she and I had done. My wife laughed at her and said "So what's wrong with you that you gave up such a stud?" and hung up. My wife and I remained together several more years before she finally decided she needed to be single again - and my relationship while were were separated had nothing to do with it.
2006-10-06 02:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because she has been hurt and wants to return the favor. 'Hell hath no fury'.....Maybe the seperated husband pledged undying love for her, talked of a future together, told her what she wanted to hear, lied, who knows. When you're seperated, are you morally available to date? If so, then the single woman did nothing wrong and the wife needs to recogonize the risks of this happening when she lets go.
However, any single woman getting involved should for her own sake make sure, as best she can, that the marriage is indeed over.
2006-10-06 02:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by yolkyolk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
single women do this as they see the married man as being safe. It really does not matter if he goes back to his wife. To call his wife is just plain childish. Why bother? It was a mutual decision between two consenting adults. Just let it go and consider it a lifes lesson. Move on.
2006-10-06 02:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually the **** hits the fan, he and his wife split , go through a messy divorce which leaves them both penniless and the girl gets the satisfaction of having nailed his sorry ***. Its called selfish revenge!
2006-10-06 02:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by P-Wally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are insecure and think that it somehow makes them better than the wife. They are put on a pedestal for a short time.
2006-10-06 02:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by MCS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sound like the woman just wanted the man and was willing to do anything to get him. If the marriage is worth it and what you want then just tell her that you know and that it is something that you and your husband are working on.
2006-10-06 02:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are insecure about themselves and like the attention that a committed man is steering away from his wife for her...
i hate women like that.
2006-10-06 02:44:37 · answer #11 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋