hey guys , havin a dilemma, recently my rship with my best friend turned physical and we both realized hell we were in love. the girl girl thing is new to both of us and she's in a bad lt rship with a guy who treats her bad. im single. she told me shes gonna leave this guy and h.fully then we can be together. i know its gonna be real difficult (no kids involved)but financialy and in other ways, which worries her. She said she will leave him by christmas and we can have fresh start, but i'm so scared she will not follow through, she cant seem to stand up to him and does know this, she is very insecure but wants to leave him on her terms. what can i do. i love her.
2006-10-06 02:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by brat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is playing you. This is another version of the married man who's wife doesnt understand him...oh but he cant leave her. Bull..if he was that bad she would not only leave she would leave NOW. She is so scared but not scared enough to tell you she will leave him on her terms...puleez. If she was in love with you she would be out as soon as her little feet could travel money problems withstanding. She hasnt made up her mind yet and is keeping her options open.
2006-10-06 02:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe the best thing to do would be to leave her be and give her space. As hard as it is, she needs to leave him because she wants to. Not because she found someone better. As much as she says she is ready, it is so hard to do. I am sure she is still very attached and will need some time. Just be supportive and don't let your feelings get in the way. I would not have any intercouurse if possible either for the time being. It will only complicate things even more. The best thing to do if you love her is give her space and have an open ear. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-06 02:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a friend be supportive and just be there
As a lover your are so screwed. You are not in a position to make any decision. Your on the side line girl. She can do any thing she want. You want to know about love. Well here it is It's all about "trust" not sex. She betray her trust with this guy and she might do the same with you and you have no control over that girl.
Good luck
2006-10-06 02:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard situation regardless of your sexual prefrences i think she should leave him first then give it a while before openly telling people about your r/ship. i would also make sure she is not just experimenting and actually is in love with you also because her relationship is so bad and yours isnt she could be misinterperting that as love. i'd thread carefully here but she defo has to leave him first no butts about it and if not i'd question her commitment to you. hope it all works out x
2006-10-06 02:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be there for when she needs you,its a waiting game and she needs to find the strength to leave this guy on her own terms. Iv been there and it took me 4yrs to do it so, I hope you wont have to wait that long and by the sounds of it she is already half way to getting out. so take your time and be patient , .
2006-10-06 02:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she felt the same as you she would arleady left her bf. So I am gussing she is not to sure.
You should talk with her and see how she feels and make sure you both agree on something or else it will never work
Good Luck
2006-10-06 02:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo... complicated relationship..
well... does she love u too?if she does then why don u give both of urself a chance to have a better rs...
since both are still single it might be a good chance for both of ur rs to grow... give it a try...
2006-10-06 02:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's never gonna leave him. Theres a guy asking about keeping it hard, you should ask him.
2006-10-06 02:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if she loves you and not the guy then she should leave sooner rather than later why wait till xmas
2006-10-06 02:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by phillipa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give her an ultimatium now or never if she loves you she will be with you if not move on but dont let her waste your valuable time
2006-10-06 02:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jennyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋