2006-10-06 02:15:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because men think there women will never change and she does and women think the men will change and they dont!
2006-10-06 02:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only does if u let it.. alot of people give up on the "wooing" when they've already got u, and lets face it u cant keep up the romance 365 days a year for the next possible 50 , its just impossible.. but u should have romantic moments here and there, to keep the passion burning and both husband and wife should try to make those moments happen not just one or the other.. those are the moments that make memories.. and those will be the moments that keep u hanging on in good timea and in bad.. so although marriage isnt a love novel or soap opera.. that day in and day out is full of romance.. u should both make attempts of doing things romantic for the other.. unfortunately womens idea's of romance differ from mens lol.. romantic to them is season tickets to the football game lol..but whatever it is.. do things to make the other person go "WOW" and dont look at only the big things, appreciate the small things that u may let go unnoticed every day.. those add up to being bigger then the "WOW" days if u take the time to notice..
Could be as simple as when ur spouse gets up to get a drink they get u one as well or ask if u need anything while they are up.. or when they are at the store they remember something u said u needed or wanted and pick it up for u ... be greatful of the little things that your spouse does because not everyone does that, and those are the things u'd miss the most about them...
2006-10-06 09:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because romance and love are two different things. Romance is two sets of gonads calling to each other and trying to be subtle about it. Love is that which develops between two people bonded by marriage, children and families.
Romance is dinner by candlelight followed by long cuddles by a roaring fire on a late Autumn evening. Love is pulling the covers up around her shoulders after she's endured yet another evening of crying children. Romance is gazing into his eyes in a mesmerizing fashion until he is yours. Love is placing that second pork chop on his plate without nagging him about his cholesterol.
Romance is fast and furious and intimate and sloppy. Love grows slowly, studiously and steadily. Romance is wrestling naked through the night. Love is a couple hours of hugging and kissing before the kids get home from the movie.
Romance is for kids. Love is forever. Love is romance in full blossom. Love is simply romance that has matured. May it ever be so.
2006-10-06 09:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before marriage men use romance to get the woman and then when they get them in marriage they forget that romance helps keep a marriage.
2006-10-06 09:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not. It grows. You will have times when your so busy that you think you don't have time for romance. When those times happen you both need to stop and work together making romance top priority.
2006-10-06 09:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because couples do get exhausted. For example: kids, work, bills, chores, etc
If you want to spice up your relationship, think of creative ways to treat your spouse. For example: write a love letter to them and mail it to them so they can find it in your mailbox; warm a towel in the drier and give it to them after they take a shower so they feel "toasty"; candlelight dinner for 2 on a cardboard box; etc...etc.. Do not wait for your other half to be romantic, you have to start it. Then they will appreciate it later and do something for you in return.
2006-10-06 09:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by choosinghappiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that people get all caught up with the other day to day things and romance seems to be put on the "back burner".
2006-10-06 09:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become comfortable, Take each other for granted. You need to make it point to spend time together. no kids, no interruptions. Go off for a weekend. Even if its for a few hours. Time to recapture what you thought was lost.....Staying in bed for an extra hour. Talking, sharing......
2006-10-06 09:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Gina K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really more complicated than you think but the Decline of Rome started about 456AD when the Emperor of Rome wrote to the...oh...wait.....*
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2006-10-06 09:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
2006-10-06 09:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its because you spend too much time together after you get married and all the fun was in the dating
2006-10-06 09:18:46 · answer #11 · answered by Esther L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋