2006-10-06 02:03:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
you shouldnt.
if you do then he really doesnt like or love you.
2006-10-06 02:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I know some will object - but here are some things that work:
If you are already having sex with him - keep that up.
Being a fun girl that likes to go do things with him.
Don't talk about your problems with him - save it for your girlfriends or your mother.
Don't appear to be trying hard to impress him - just be yourself.
Don't be a doormat - don't give him all of your time. Don't wait for the phone to ring - and don't leave your schedual open so he can take over any time you have.
Don't cook him extravagant meals if that is not who you normally are.
Just go get this book and read it cover to cover - it's full of great advice. It helped me get the great guy I have - "Why Men Love Bitches" - it's funny and it will help make you the great catch that you are.
2006-10-06 09:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being yourself. This may sounds lame or heard it like a million times before, but the only way is to be yourself. You can do all sorts of things and say all sort of stuff to make him like or love you, but the key point is how to make the man keep on liking you or loving you. You may say that you will keep the act on, but believe me, you cant keep up with the lies and acts forever. The only way for a person to truly like you or love you is to trust you and believe you, that is why all you need to do is to be yourself.
I hope i did not make you felt bothered or being lectured. Im jz expressing my opinion on this issue. Good luck!
2006-10-06 09:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Gabrielle_1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people love you. It would not last anyway cause you would do stuff that the person would like you for now. In the long term you want someone who will like/love you for you.
2006-10-06 09:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by ~Dee~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make anyone like or love you is a recipe for disaster, just let it happen. If it's meant to be it will happen and everyone will be happy. Try to force it and someone will be disappointed, probably you!
2006-10-06 09:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself don't force yourself on anyone this only causes them to run away. Act like your are interested without being two interested. There is a fine line but acting a little uninterested will actually cause him to more interested. That is probally where he has you now....
2006-10-06 09:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to gently force the issue. If it was me then I'd just ask them out. I'm a boy but if it was a girl then i'd just say, how's about we go to the movies on fri night?'
Send me a marriage invitation. I so love weddings.
2006-10-06 09:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE anyone love you. BUT, you can make it hard for him not to like you. Be a friend. Wink at him and smile. Compliment him on his shirt, grades, hair, athletic prowess, etc. To have a friend, be a friend.
2006-10-06 09:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy doesn't like you for you, then trying to make him like you just wouldn't work out anyway.
2006-10-06 09:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mambers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make make them, they have to like or love you on their own
2006-10-06 09:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by alh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant make someone love you
2006-10-06 09:06:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋