how do i get over my ex who cheated on me with my mate ? still lov him but hate him at the same time !
2006-10-06 01:47:16 · 16 answers · asked by phillip c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
their are no magic cures only time can heal this wound, but you could try to just date other people to get your mind off him.
2006-10-06 01:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by oneluv1169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that your X is a female but it sounds to me like you are looking at the wrong person to hate ,,,,, If you had a good friendship with this guy but now feel there's a problem between you because your X cheated with him ,,,,, Then It would seem to me that you have a problem with your X not your friend ,,,, Why bust up a perfectly good friendship with some one over your X just because she got next to him ,,,, It would seem to me that your friend did you a favor by proving that she wasn't worth it in the first place ,,,, So now what ,,,,, you are out a good friend while your X isn't around anymore ,,,,,, lol ,,,, Are you getting lonely ?
2006-10-06 08:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a throw away affair. Meet someone that makes you laugh and spend a few weeks just enjoying yourself with someone different. Sex isn't necesarry but it can really help you mend and it cements in your mind that the boy you miss is your Ex if you have had another lover since.
2006-10-06 08:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same, it is a mind game but you just have to convince yourself that you are better off with out, once that is in your head it becomes reality, plus stay away for a while do not answer calls emails or the door for that matter, it gets better with time also make sure your friend feels that she did you harm
2006-10-06 08:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by ninja cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time and relize that you do not deserve to be treated that way. Find things to do to keep your mind busy. Coming to terms with yourself that you are a special person and there is someone out there that will treat you the way you should be treated.
2006-10-06 08:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him ? you use to love him.what was there to ever really love ?please stop loving people that don't love you. love is not a noun in real life,love is a verb. a person has to treat you certain way that brings about love. some of you are in love with being in love. If a man or woman doesn't please you and you are doing all the pleasing than how can that be love ? get over that loser and love yourself as much as you say you love this loser who has no respect for you or the relationship you had.
2006-10-06 08:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he didn't feel the same way about you, there's a thin line between love and hate...don't fill your heart with resentment towards him, it may ruin a wonderful future relationship with someone who truly cares for you.
2006-10-06 08:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, go out with your girlfriends. Volunteer at a hospital. Whatever. Get another job. Just keep yourself busy. Good Luck.
2006-10-06 08:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of everything that reminds you of him and start over. No boy is worth beating yourself down over.
2006-10-06 08:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get a boyfriend,maybe one of his friends or sleep with one of his best friens and try to make *stamps * then he will ask from whom is it.
2006-10-06 08:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋