My mum kicked me out of home 1 year ago because I left school and not doing anything with my life but now I have but my life together. I’m study and have a steady job and I think it’s the best thing she ever did for me but I don’t know to start getting our relationship back together does anyone have any ideas how I can prove to my mum I have really change and that I’m sorry for everything I have done cause I feel I haven’y done enough jet
2006-10-06 01:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by bell b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the hell with her. go get drunk.
2006-10-06 01:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sawcutting Shogun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also kicked my son out for the same sort of reasons. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. It was even harder having to watch him turn his life around without helping him. All I can say is Good on you. I hope you are really proud of yourself.
I really don't think that you will have to prove anything to your Mum. She will know for herself. Deep down she loves you that is why she kicked you out in the first place. It was all part of growing up and trying to get you to better yourself. Send Mum a thankyou card,give her a big hug, tell her you love her...any or all of the above is all a mother ever wants. Lastly... just never look back,keep going forwards.
2006-10-06 08:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by pixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go back to her now, not because you're now well to do, but because she is your mom. To a certain extent her kicking you out the house opened the way for you to become what you are now. I know she loves you. Give her a call, tell her how much you love her and how much you have been thinking of her. When you finally decide to go see her, do well to go with some flowers, don't forget the flowers
2006-10-06 08:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by redeemedmikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her out to dinner and tell her this. Thank her for the dose of tough love she gave you that made you sit up and think. Tell her that you want a relationship back with her as well as telling her you understand it won't be exactly the same as before. You could tell her that you want to stand up and take responsibility for yourself and your actions. but remember, you where the child and children do not come with guarantee's that you can return when they make mistakes or are faulty. Put the past behind you and set out to rebuild the future.
2006-10-06 08:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its not enough in this case. Well at first finish your studies and get a better job and then go to her and show you resuolts and thank her. And send everytime the copies of your result to her. She will come back to you and she will feel proud of you later. Thats the best.
2006-10-06 08:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Mothers Love does not deteriorate, just by trying to show her that you have changed will take time. Give her time, and she will be there for you. Breaking a Mother's Trust is different than that of any other, Keep trying, Call her, tell her you Love her, I'm so happy for you that you realize that she was trying to help you.
Good Luck to you.
2006-10-06 08:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter thanking her for what she did for you. Explain how her actions were right and that you have benefited from them. Tell her that you know she must love you very much to do something so drastic and acknowledge how hard that must have been for her. Tell her you are sorry and would like to communicate again if she will have you back. Tell her you love her. Then send it.
Good luck to you and your mom.
2006-10-06 08:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, your mom kicked up out, bcoz u left school.. I am sorry to say but it seems a wierd reason. Anyhow, you better start calling her up once in a while, getting down to her house and meeting her even if for a few minutes itself. Buy her gifts and all...
Try to work out and talk out things, but mind u.. be consistent and slow.. It takes time for wounds to heal. Need more help. Feel free to email me: manushiramavat@yahoo.com
Take Care.
Hope things work out soon.
2006-10-06 08:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Manu_luvsham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident in youself, any questions she asks be ready to answer them right. Dont fly off the handle and try to avoid arguements with her. Tell her how much she means to you and you want to build a better strong relationship with her. Thats the only advice i can give you. Hope it goes well Take Care x
2006-10-06 08:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh!
you say 1 year ago?
lets see....
ok the best thing to do is .....
go back to her and tell that you are really really sorry for whatever you had done.
if a mom kick her child out of the house , the child must have done something really bad.
this is not too hurt you. but i just said.
take my advice.
2006-10-06 08:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-06 08:09:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋