OK, there is my friend who thinks she is pregeant and scared to tell anyone but me......
what am i suppose to do?
Please help, i have no idea what i should do about this!
2006-10-06 00:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by Britt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is your friend, and trusts you not to tell anyone. Don't betray her trust or you'll lose a friend. Just comfort her and suggest that she take a pregnancy test, and if it's positive, she should talk to her parents. Good luck.
2006-10-06 00:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things to consider here. First, was the sex concensual? Does her boyfriend know she might be pregnant? Taking a pregnancy test a couple times over the next two or three weeks wouldbe a good idea, although don't take one just a couple days after the sex; that is too early and nothing will show up.
If she is not pregnant, her and her boyfriend need to sit down and have a talk. To avoid this kind of situation in the future, they will have to make a solid and conscious effort to change how they "conduct" themselves around each other. Spending more time with groups rather than alone will help a little with that.
If she is pregnant, she needs to come clean. Tell the boyfriend and both sets of parents (hers and his). Letting the parents know is scary, but if you want their support in the future, they need to know that she repsects them enough to be upfront and honest with them.
Good luck:)
2006-10-06 08:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to take a pregnancy test immediatly and should tell her parents if shes pregnant or not because if she isnt pregnant she needs to get birth control im 31 i was 17 when i got pregnant and it was the hardest thing for me to have to tell my parents but things worked out and i had alot of support explain to her that its not going to be easy to tell her parents but its alot easier than caring for a child either way her parents need to know shes having sex and you as a freind should support her to tell her parents
2006-10-06 07:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by lisaisfunn1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good friend to her and be there whenever she would need you. she really needs you right now. I know how your friend must be feeling coz am also in the same position and have only told my best friend and the only thing i need from her right now is to be there for me.
2006-10-06 07:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bab-gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her to take a pregnancy test to find out for sure if she is or isnt.... then take it from there, tell her to go to her doctor and they will keep it confidential!
2006-10-06 07:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to convince her to tell her parents as soon as possible. It will not get any easier.
2006-10-06 07:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince her to tell her parents, its gonna come out some time....
2006-10-06 08:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by cindz_jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to take several tests. thentell her parents
2006-10-06 07:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell others.
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2006-10-06 07:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by god0fgod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should take a test...buy one...and then counsel her to let her parents know---if she is.
2006-10-06 07:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by want2no 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋