Men seem (not all) to be hung up on the size of their penis? I have debated this with my girlfriends and they have come to the conclusion that SIZE REALLY DOE'S NOT MATTER! It's the way it is used that matters, if your partner is getting her pleasure then what the hell!!! Some of my friends said that size is an issue, I beg to differ. The outcome will always be the same regardless.
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2006-10-06 00:17:42 · 23 answers · asked by classychick 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i tend to agree, i think most guys are hung up because of the fear that their size will be equated with their ability to perform. Just like some guys are pissed off that they topped out at a 5'7" height and have this Napoleanic complex about how others will treat them. I'm 6'4" and I see this all the time in sports and when I am working the bar at my resturant. It is really great you asked this question, I would love to talk to women who just are curious about what makes guys tick.
2006-10-06 00:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by JJH 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Agree with "Size doesn't matter" to an extent. It could become a problem if they are overweight, have "hidden penis" or "micro penis". (these are serious medical terms, look them up)..
But the average guy has a 5.5 - 6" penis in length. Now if the cavity of the vagina is on average 5", then there should be no problems.. Although, then girth comes into the equasion here.
Sometimes it's a mental thing... Women like something bigger too look at..
I had a previous boyfriend that had a penis around 5" or so, and he didn't have any trouble satisfying women. My fiance is just over 7", and he satisfies me just the same, but I will admit, the 7" is more "eye candy" than the 5...
Guess thats just how the world has become though...
2006-10-06 00:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jada C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are torn between trusting a line that sounds too good to be true and their own inbuilt insecurity, which is fanned by other men in a kind of tribal quest for mating privileges.
Guys tell other guys that penis size is important, and given any opportunity, will demean their friends, so as to subliminally lessen their friends' sense of masculinity (and on a very basic level, kill their confidence, leaving the more confident males in the pack to compete for females).
Women are of course utterly, throroughly individual. If you ever, ever, DARE to think you have "women" figured out, quite a few women will put their hand up and dash whatever generalised theory you come up with. That being the case, for many women, size genuinely IS important (As a journalist, I've acually interviewed sexologists, agony aunts and women generally about this). This is a fact that has reached us in the male world, and provoked a huge wave of men saying "Aha!!! I KNEW it was too good to be true!", reinforcing every paranoid fantasy of unmanliness we have with a simple nugget of truth.
However, a lot of women, as you rightly say, don't especially care about penis length. Other things, including thickness, technique, enthusiasm and sensitivity often come into the equation during sex. Men who are not particualry well endowed cling to THIS particular little nugget of truth to keep their hopes of ever having sex with women alive. And they do, and that's great. But the combination of the knowledge that some women DO place an importance on size, and the ribbing of their friends, will still make men wonder whether the women they have sex with would have a better time if they were bigger.
Men are generally a bit strange. :o)
2006-10-06 00:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by mdfalco71 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe size matters. If my mate can learn that to pleasure a woman requires much more than the actual penetration then they have the game won already. Men do not spend enough time using the rest of their bodies to pleasure a woman with is part of the problem. If all you plan on doing is mounting the horsy and riding to town then size probably does matter. However if you take the time to explore a woman's body and note her errogenous zones which include the back of the neck, ears, sides of the torso, inner thigh, back of the knees, etc. then she will be sufficiently pleased that a 3 in. weenie will bring her the rest of the way. Sex as an act itself should be an act of reverence for both parties and there should be communication as you go to see what really makes your partner tick. Unfortunately men are like microwaves and can be ready to go on a moments notice while women are more like crockpots, it takes a while to reach perfect temperature.
2006-10-06 00:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mere 6 1/2 incher, I have to wonder about this too. I've certainly had no complaints over the years. A friend who is abnormally large (14 inch) and wide to match has great difficulty. His wife finds it extremely painful as did his previous girlfriends. After having 3 kids, they stopped having sex by mutual agreement. They're still very much in love (25 years later) but have never had full sex since. They learned to satisfy themselves in other ways.
So, size might matter in some cases.
2006-10-06 00:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some women it does matter. A guy doesn't want to start dating one of those and come up short, so to speak. Why do women get breast implants? It has nothing do do with making sex better. In many cases it numbs the breast somewhat. It is just a matter of self confidence, same as a man.
BTW. My size is too big, as my girlfriend is very uncomfortable during, so I actually get much less as a result. Size can be important, but it does not mean that bigger is better.
2006-10-06 00:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The size issue does not really bother men when it comes to sex. They all have the same end result no matter what size. I think the biggest worry for men and size is when visiting the Gym or locker rooms where the big boys really like to show off..............
2006-10-06 00:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your anatomy maintains to be the comparable length or seems smaller on condition that fatty tissue builds up around the backside of your anatomy. in case you drop some pounds, it truly is going to look greater, and would get greater on condition that extra blood would be waiting to pass on your anatomy.
2016-10-02 00:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not agree with u, I think size really matters. If u have 9" then I think ur GF will enjoy much more then a 6".
2006-10-06 00:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its a confidence thing - guys verses guys - my cars faster than yours, my hi-fi's louder than yours, my salary's more than yours - but my dick's small !!! And no matter what you do it always will be. Sadly I'm not blessed with this problem - some women have even said "bloody hell" on first site and some are even scared of it - but I can sympathise with the pee wees of our world - I blame the women for creating the stigma
2006-10-06 00:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Kev R at work need beer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋