to quit with him. I was working as his secretary so I stop working with him and got a new job. He came to apologise and we're back again. He takes care of my financial problems and he told me again that he feels guilty when he sees his wife and so want us to quit but will still want us to be good friends. should I avoid him becuase I know seeing him again will be another mistake. Perhaps this could even make me go in for a younger man who could marry me.
2006-10-06 00:06:19 · 21 answers · asked by sweet81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
look at your age gurl and look at him. you have plenty of choice in the world why are you stuck on one man who is already married. you should move on with a guy around your age and one who will love you and respect you. just find the right guy for yourself, and dont fall for a person who is already leading a life with his wife and a person who takes care of you financially. Move onnnnnnnnnn!!! good luck
2006-10-06 00:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a new job and take care of your own financial problems. This guy obviously wants to be in control. When you quit the first time, he apologized so you would go back to work for him so he could be in control again. He wants you around so he can have you when he wants and can keep his eyes on you. He's older and he's married which means he is more experienced with this type of stuff and he's probably done this before. Move on and find the younger man who will marry you...don't settle on the old one who is already married. Unless, you want to live in the 55 and older community when you are 25!
2006-10-06 07:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you've been through the stages of "office fluff", "other woman" and "paid tart" and have now come full circle and want someone to swoop in and marry you.
The cheater you have been banging has at least got the right idea: it's time for this pathetic play to end. Get a life, get a set of morals, DON'T get another man until you have at least a rudimentary understanding of the damage you have already done to other people's lives.
2006-10-06 07:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get well out of it hun...
He is obviously not a silly man, The term having your cake and eating it springs to mind! And hey what about hes innocent wife that is at home probably thinking he is the best thing to of ever happened to her.... So he should feel bad a**hole!
I know all that about you can't help who you fall in love with but please try... At least for yourself surely you want to be happy with someone who can give you the time and effort you need!
Being on your own would probably be better than the current situatin
YOU DESERVE MORE!
2006-10-06 07:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Updowndizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like seeing him is going to lead you back into a relationship with him because you still want to be with him, then yes, cut your ties with him. You are still a young woman with your whole life in front of you. Chalk the experience you had with him as just that..a learning experience so you won't waste your time with another married man in the future. (They rarely leave their wives for the other woman)
2006-10-06 07:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better leave him alone and most likely find another job. If his wife doesn't know chances are she is going to find out and for your sake that wouldn't be good. he was probably going through a midlife crisis and found you. He's over it and doesn't want to lose his family over you. Don't let him take care of you finally anymore and move on.
2006-10-06 07:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by babyj2524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What younger man would want to marry a 25 year old harlot who has had 56 year old nuts on her chin? Honey move to a different town and begin anew!
2006-10-06 07:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by mburkeslaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ain't nothing but a GOLD DIGGER.....SHARING yourself with a MARRIED ol'phart . This man wants his cake and eat it too. You need to kick the ol'phart to the curb and forget about it!. As you see and hopefully have learned.....this man only wants what is up your skirt and between your legs. He tells his wife everyday he loves her......and then turn around and does you!!
Cut the dude off...he's to old ....for you. Find someone who is FREE....NO WIFE...NO GIRLFRIEND.....you'll be better off in the long run!!!!
2006-10-06 07:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE Realistc he's 26 yrs older than you are all he was ever out for was a young dumb [no offence] piece of tail or he wasnt getting it at home. dont sell yourself short your probably a very attractive young lady and theres probably tons of guys out there closer to your age that you could connect to just as easy . hell i dont know you but id sure give you a try im 35 but still a hell of a nice guy.basicaly start living withinyour own age group . i wish you lots of luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 07:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by rick y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very close to retiring age and will lose his sex drive shortly. It may feel good to have him pay your bills. but believe me sister, he isn't the man for you. You wont leave until you are ready, but I hope you are ready soon. You are missing out on so much. A man who will love and cherish you and relate to you for much longer than this adulterer will. Good luch
2006-10-06 07:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋