Thanks for talking with me earlier. Tonight I need some time to get over what has happened today so I'm not really going to be able to IM with you. I just need some time to deal with it. Something I was keeping to myself was the fact that, after missing my "friend," knowing I was most likely pregnant, I was not scared or upset at all. I just pictured having a little baby version of you, and it made me very happy and I knew everything would be okay even though the pregnancy was unintended. I kept on picturing how beautiful of a child we'd have made. I don't know how to explain how I feel. You think I'd feel relieved but I'm not. I'm having a hard time with this. I am sure this is rough on you too since you've had to worry about whether I was pregnant or not. I guess nature just took its course.
2006-10-05 22:58:25 · 8 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Well it sounds like you guys had a pregnancy scare that wasn't so scary to her. She was more upset to find out she wasn't pregnant than to think that she was. She must love you very much. You must love her equally if you are concerned about how to reply to her email.
She needs some time to adjust to her disappointment. Please don't be insensitive. Email her and let her know you love her and will be there when ever she is ready to talk. Keep it simple. Don't try and compensate and for goodness sake DON'T make any insensitive comments about how you are glad she is not pregnant. You may feel that way and that is totally ok.. You just don't need to say it.
2006-10-06 08:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go after her and give her a supporting loving shoulder, she hasnt lost the baby has she? That is the impression I get and she is to scared to tell you directly. Be gentle with her... I might be reading it wrong ... though that is the feeling Im getting... You both need to take it easy on one another though give distance but be there too ... it sounds mad/crazy but through a personal experience of a friend. There are proffessionals who will help you only have to ask....
2006-10-06 00:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviosly reaching out to you. The baby is definitely yours but she just scared of how a baby is gonna play a part in her life. she just needs to know that you'll be there for her and her baby when the time comes. Buy her some roses (blue ones, Red's been done- about 24 of them) and some chocolates and let her know that whatever decision she makes, you'll stick by her.
Good luck mate and congratulations
2006-10-05 23:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by leicestertroy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Took it pretty good...you should talk to her...even if this was an accident its your baby your going to have to step up to the plate and be a man...jeez thats one of the nicest emails i've ever read haha...you should read some of the crap i've wrote my babies dad!!! you just need to tell her how you feel and what your willing to do...thats so nice! goodluck toyou
2006-10-05 23:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her house with pink and blue balloons and tell her you love her!
2006-10-06 01:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the big fish get away.You know you still want to be there for them.
2006-10-05 23:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, man, just call her... She needs you.
2006-10-05 23:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by prasessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants a kid
2006-10-06 00:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋