Thanks for talking with me earlier. Tonight I need some time to get over what has happened today so I'm not really going to be able to IM with you. I just need some time to deal with it. Something I was keeping to myself was the fact that, after missing my "friend," knowing I was most likely pregnant, I was not scared or upset at all. I just pictured having a little baby version of you, and it made me very happy and I knew everything would be okay even though the pregnancy was unintended. I kept on picturing how beautiful of a child we'd have made. I don't know how to explain how I feel. You think I'd feel relieved but I'm not. I'm having a hard time with this. I am sure this is rough on you too since you've had to worry about whether I was pregnant or not. I guess nature just took its course.
2006-10-05 22:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
only words coming from your heart can exactly relate to how she feels.
go to the keyboard (as you are now) and start typing.
the words will flow.
good luck
2006-10-05 23:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't say if this was a casual sex relationship or if you and her were really a couple. If you feel that there was a real relationship involved with this, then you need to ask her if she feels the same, because it seems as though she doesn't. That is the only reason I can see that she would referr to you as her "friend".
2006-10-05 23:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by florence t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you only ask her, in man or woman, what she meant by skill of this wordy message. She sound reminiscent of she is a "loner" for this reason of a minimum of a few thing in her previous and it extremely is stressful to be emotional, yet ok, it truly is not any longer a foul component. in case you 2 are meant to be the "loner" and avoidance of emtions and private connections will opt for the flow away. She probable had to effect you together with her abitlity to position in writing yet seems extremely too deep to declare so little.
2016-11-26 20:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be supportive and say that you understand - if that is the truth. If you are confused, I would tell her that as well. Honesty in a relationship is always the best policy. But be there for her when she is ready to talk and don't be pushy. But always speak from the heart - it's always going to be the best bet.
2006-10-05 23:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Shadowtwinchaos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id prehps say its ok dont worry about it take your time :) i know it must be hard for you but contact me when you are ready or if you need me call me you know where i am ill be waiting :) plus it gives you a little space to thats if you need space ? good luck xx
2006-10-05 23:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be a "wake-up call" to you both.
No more bareback riding until you have considered all the ramifications of child rearing.
2006-10-06 01:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Doubting Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she was hoping she was preg-found out she wasn`t.really hard to tell.i`d say that she sounds, like a loving ,caring person, who will be a wonderful mother(someday?) (now?).that 2 people in love ,making achild is special.then, tell her how you really feel.if you`re not prepared for this now-let her know-gently.
2006-10-05 23:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"regardless of the outcome, ill still be at your side"... simple.
2006-10-05 23:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jorge R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋