I have been married since last seven years. After some time I realize we cant have a child due to some problem in my wife. We tried some articificial efforts but couldn't succeed. During this time I came in touch with one of my colleague. She is loving and is normal. Now what should I do. Remain with spouse without any hope or find out some another way or marry my lover. Plz. solve my problem. If you know some person who can assure me a child without any formal relationship this will help me out.
2006-10-05 21:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by pranav u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously it is a big deal to you to have children. You married your wife for better or for worse. as it looks right now this is the worse. If you love her then you should love her the way she is...all of her. As far as your collague...what in the world does "normal" mean? no one is normal. I know you meant that she could have kids but is it worth it? You would leave your wife of 7 seven years because a colleague can have kids and she can't? Why not try to adopt instead?
2006-10-05 22:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Teena R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I think what you want very much is a child. You don't have to leave your wife because of that. Remember it is not her decision to not have the opportunity to give birth. If you lost both your legs, do you think your wife should consider leaving you and marrying a "Normal" man?
So proceed with other methods in consultation with your clinic to help you both have a child together;
1- Adopt
2- artificial methods.
NB: Many times the man thinks the woman is the problem, however it is sometimes the man with problems. You need to check both yourselves. You may be surprised to find you are the one that cannot bare any children.
2006-10-05 22:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you got married just to have kids. If you feel this way just imagine how she feels. You are a real jerk for even thinking of leaving her. There are other means of having children, there are sooooooo many of out there that don't have any parents. TRY ADOPTION. Have you slept with the colleague? If you have shame on you. Do you remember your vowes? It doesn't sound like it. Maybe you will get lucky and your wife will wake up and leave your sorry a**.
2006-10-05 22:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stupid colleage of urs is ruining her life along with ur family life.What will happen if she concieves and leaves u with her child saying u are a woman degrader!
2006-10-05 22:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your poor wife you really are shallow - did you marry her so she could just be a baby machine for you. My, My ! Sounds like she would be better without you mate.
2006-10-05 22:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask this on a public forum?? should you not be talking to your 'wife' about how you feel..
as a Woman who had trouble concieving,with a mega supportive husband, all i can say is, SHE is probaly better off without YOU if thats all that matters!
2006-10-05 21:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by tiny_lou1965 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"In sickness and in health" Does that not mean anything? You two need to adopt. I'm sorry your wife can not conceive, but you need to stick by her. How do you think she feels?
2006-10-05 22:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i typed what i really think i would get arrested...I hope your wife finds a real man, one that loves her for her, and leave you, you piece of **** ....
2006-10-05 22:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think with your brain, think with your heart. be with the person you love. and if it turns to be your wife then my advice is adoption. dont bring children in a loveless marriage.
2006-10-05 22:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell did you get married in the first place? You spit on faith. adopt!!
2006-10-05 21:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋