2006-10-05 21:50:44 · 22 answers · asked by hayley g 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
There is absolutely nothing that anybody can say or do to make things easier. Grief is like a cocoon: all enveloping. You just have to make sure that you as a person keeps your sanity in the meantime. You will survive but you will come out of it a different person. You just have to carry on living while the grief runs its course. A new you will come out the other side, I promise.
2006-10-05 22:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by 13caesars 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, how truly sorry I am for you. You have my deepest sympathy and I will say a prayer for you. I can relate to your issue as I lost my husband to cancer 1 1/2 years ago and I'm still not feeling good. Every moment is different and the loss will cause you so many different emotions over the course of time. I am in a total reality moment, thought I was from the start, but I wasn't at all. It really gets real eventually. How terrible for you, a young baby. Each loss is different but yet the same. Love is lost physically for all, but the love in your heart, mind, body and soul shall forever remain and eventually you'll be able to remember without falling apart every time you do. The Lord be with you.............
2006-10-05 22:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by silhouette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met the parents of an only child (a little girl) killed in a road accident. The Mother said that, on that very day, she was given an inexplicable sense of peace. She was not then a Christian, but felt that this could only be explained by God reassuring her that the little one was safely in His hands. Later, she and her husband did ask Christ into their lives.
I don't know the answer of how to deal with your particular situation, since I don't know you, but maybe my tale will help.
2006-10-05 22:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Malcolm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry if that is a personal question. People deal with grief in different ways. Of course there is no easy answer to this question but I thought few words of sympathy are well in order. The world is full of compassionate and caring people. Remember that it might help.
2006-10-05 21:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Pyramider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly i am sorry to hear this unfortuntaly there is no quick way i know that a situation like this is hard and you may feel like throwing the towel in but what you have to remember is that your baby girl has gone to a better place she is free from pain and free from a world full of hate, things will get easier in time you need to remember that she loved you and that you loved her you could try talkin to your gp or your partner or family member or even your closest friend in you can't do any of that why not try writting things down that might help again i am sorry for your loss god bless you.
2006-10-05 22:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Denver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking about her, whether its with a counsellor or family members, or just writing a journal of your feelings. Dont bottle it all up. I heard a saying the other day that really struck home, I hope it helps you...
Dont be sad that it's over,
Be happy that it happened
Im so sorry to hear of your loss, sending you hugs. Bxx
2006-10-05 22:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Secret Squirrel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to www.anderson-therapy.com and call me, I will do what I can to help you. I recently treated a client for the loss of her husband of 43 years. The treatment took 30 mins. She was able to smile and think of the lovely things rather than focussing on the loss. She even sent me a thank you card weeks later.
2006-10-05 21:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by michelle a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try talking to a relate councillor this can be arranged by your doctor of in your local phone book you ll find a number to contact but most of all dint mourn her life celebrate what time you had with her and remember every little detail of her short span in life but god only takes the best for his own reasoning . god must have needed another angel . this will relive the process of healing a bit for you, draw your strength to carry on from your daughter she will be
with you always
2006-10-05 22:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by a1ways_de1_lorri_2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your question is very hard for anyone to answer.i lost a baby granddaughter 2 years ago.my son asked me how to deal with his little angels death.i told him you cant ever deal with it what you have to do is learn to live with it till the hurt and the pain has gone and you are left with the beautiful memories of your dear child.
2006-10-05 23:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by gmcneill29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bible says all things worketh for good for those who are in christ and who are called according to his purposes. It calls for you to throw yourself to God and find peace there for He says He has good plans for us; plans of not harming us but giving us an expected end and future. It is not the time to ask why but time to find peace with your God. Consider giving Christ Jesus your heart if you haven't and He shall give the peace that surpassess human understanding. May the Jesus I know hear you at this very point of your life.
2006-10-05 22:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by jumah n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋