I've fallen in love with a woman that's married. She's falling for me too, even though we haven't done anything. I know she would divorce for me, but I don't want that. I can't provide for her like her husband can, and she deserves everything he can give her. Every bone in my body says, turn and walk away. But my heart is telling me to stay. What should I do? I'm so confused.
2006-10-05 21:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The answer is to be found only in your heart but you are seeking answers on an open forum. Therefore, I will give my advice where usually I would keep out of such a situation. " Walk away and don't look back." You must remember, she is married." Whether you can give her all she deserves or not has nothing to do with her committment to her marriage. You don't belong in it and it's that simple. Good luck.........
2006-10-05 22:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the best things are worthy working for , in this case the thing you desire most is the wrong thing to have, remember God said, do not covet another mans wife, you must steer clear of that which you know is not yours and you must walk away. Would she be worth having if she would leave her husband, how long before she might leave you ?????
2006-10-05 21:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey isn't it her decision about who provides what - Ive been where you are if she loves you and you love her let her decide about what you can and cannot offer her. Love overrides all the above. it worked for me that doesn't mean theres not going to be tough times ahead can you ride the storm be honest or are you looking for a way out in a situation that's just too hot!
2006-10-05 21:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn your back and walk away...no "what if's" and "but's"...you both knew it too well that this is wrong from the very start..
no need to talk too...sometimes it's better left unsaid than try to linger with it...less talk, less heartaches...it's a normal inclination for us to linger especially when it's forbidden...i suggest for you to never look back because if you do...you will never find the sense of it all coz you're blinded by what you feel is right..
2006-10-05 22:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi tall calig
i am where you are myself am in love with a married person and its hard believe me it is but candy is right its you and her decision what you guys are going to do if her husband loves her he do everything to keep her
you may not have anything much but you have what she needs you have love ,understanding,you make her happy
hope things work out
2006-10-05 22:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by lines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your small pleasure you have effected her life,husbands,kids,inlaws and all kinds of other people. Either masterbate or date someone free to date before you miss up other people's lives and your own.
2006-10-05 21:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away.. you will only get hurt..
married women dont invariably leave the men they marry..
do yourself a favour, and walk away..
2006-10-05 22:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by tiny_lou1965 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run dude! You don't want to dare go there!!
2006-10-05 21:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her seriously if she can be happy with what ever you are and what ever you have then be with her
2006-10-05 21:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by ravi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-10-05 21:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋