Is it weird to be turned on by my wife fancying other blokes (celebrities)?
I find her talking about them & why she finds them attractive arousing. Weird???
2006-10-05 21:45:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Better than getting jealous
2006-10-05 21:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you feel safer with this than if she finds your mates attractive ... it's part of a fantasy and you know there's no chance of her ever acting it out in reality but at the same time, it's intriguing for you.
Maybe you should turn the tables on her and tell her which female celebs you fancy ... see if it works both ways!
2006-10-06 04:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you are just turned on by the thought of her being turned on. It's not a bad or weird thing. Most guys woud just get jealous in these scenarios
2006-10-06 04:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Showaddywaddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe...but that is actually OK.. i read it somewhere (forgot the name of the book...its at home). So I guess you don't have to feel weird about it. As long as this does not affect your marriage in a bad way, then my guess is that is not a bad thing after all!
:)
2006-10-06 04:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Eury Peima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No seriously, my ex used to make me talk about being with other guys in bed - a real turn on for him - a huge turn off for me - be careful maybe keep this one for your minds eye fella!
2006-10-06 04:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is perfectly normal for any normal woman to have feelings for other men, just like we men never stop ogling at any sexy woman we come across...so have a heart and let her have her fantacies and start sharing hers and yours, life will be a great fun and happy...
2006-10-06 04:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by FMian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, weird. But then, everyone is weird in one way ot another.
How does your wife feel about your being turned on?
2006-10-06 04:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are a part of human sexuality.
Go with the flow. It's harmless at this stage.
2006-10-06 04:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own.
I Personally have been ridiculed for my obsession with fuzzy bellies.
At least your sounds a bit more normal than mine.
2006-10-06 04:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not weird no, I very much doubt you'd feel the same if she went with one of them so it's just a little fantasy of yours, tell her, maybe she'll do it in the bedroom for you!
2006-10-06 04:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋