2006-10-05 21:36:17 · 21 answers · asked by acornph 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
Revenge plots often backfire. Besides which, wanting revenge pulls you down to the level of your enemy.
Don't dwell on it. Move beyond it. Let the experience with an enemy make you grow, not keep you in the past.
2006-10-06 01:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by martino 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are as lazy as I am will not keep enemies. It takes more muscles to frown, get angry and be really pissed than to just smile and be happy.The best thing to do to get even with an enemy is to forgive then. This might sound very stupid but trust me it works. The Bible say in Mark 11:25 "But when youare praying, first forgive anyone who you are holding a grudge against, so that your Father in heaven will forgive you of your sins too.
2006-10-06 00:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus Loves Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until their car is parked in a public place & leave a big handwritten sign on their windshield under the wiper blade. I saw a pic like this on the internet that said something like: John Smith can't pay his child support but he has money to gamble. The guy's car was parked at a casino.
A man I know was mad at a hotel for lousy service & the A/C wasn't working right, and they wouldn't let him change rooms or give him his money back so he could find another hotel. So after their fishing trip he kept a couple of fish & took down a ceiling tile, layed the fish up in there, & put the tile back. lol
2006-10-05 21:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by lisakay_tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon his offence. I quit speaking to my oldest sister, because she disputes anything I may say and insults me all too often. If my brother did that, I'd lift him with one hand and toss him out the door...without opening it. Some people mindlessly advise forgiving enemies. This doesn't work in the real world, for if one did something that needs forgiving, he'll do it again before the day is over, if you give him that chance.
2006-10-05 23:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by miyuki & kyojin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat them as if they were your best friend. It will make them feel guilty for being your enemy. It is what the Bible calls "heaping coals of fire on their head".
Another passage from the Bible says, "Vengeance is mine, saith the Lord. I will repay."
2006-10-05 21:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by wbecca52 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depends what they did to you really, but if they happen to lose their favourite pet in an unfortunate accident....well you see what i mean :P or just invite them round for a grill out/BBQ make some burgers and make them a special one...with dirty cat litter in it...my fiancee did that to her ex husband after he cheated on her LMAO!! good luck with your revenge!!
2006-10-05 21:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Asher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You post your question in the relationships category, not the books and authors category. Then you will get lots of helpful answers.
2006-10-06 05:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR OPENING UP A WHOLE CAN OF WORMS WITH THAT QUESTION. Depends what the "enemy" did.
2006-10-06 00:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by pixilated 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
kill them with kindness. It's not worth your energy to get even in a mean way. It's much better to make them mad if they can't get a negative reaction out of you !!! It works i've done it several times.
2006-10-05 21:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by loca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to them! it works. Don't start off by blaming them for something they did, start by saying that it was your bad for the wrongs u did, they will see that you are honest! Just be yourself, but dont start a fight
2006-10-05 21:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by Marilyn F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋