Women would you want to know if your man was attracted to another women even though he loves you and would never cheat on you? Would you consider letting him just once if you knew about it and could monitor it some how? I'm just curious
2006-10-05 21:32:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a man that is curious, not a cheater
2006-10-05 21:40:47 · update #1
Just wanted to know how women feel
2006-10-05 21:41:12 · update #2
oh i wouldn't need this, i know my man is attracted to everywoman, he makes it obvious when we are in public and will stare at anything with a slit between her legs.
2006-10-05 21:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by foeversexygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are no-brainers for me.
1. I don't have to hear my husband say whether or not he finds other women attractive. I know he does, just like I find other men attractive. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean that you suddenly become blind to every other person of the opposite sex. If he suddenly tried to convince me that he didn't find other women attractive, I would know that he was lying. I would also wonder what he is trying to hide. While a guy should point out all the other beautiful women to his girl, he shouldn't pretend that he is immune to them either.
2. I would never let him sleep with another woman. No matter how closely I could "monitor" it, or whatever, it's still cheating. In addition, it would be a major blow to my self confidence. I would always wonder "How was she?" "Was she better than me?" "Is she prettier than me?" "Did she have a better body?" and all kinds of crazy thoughts that would ruin both my self esteem and my trust in him. I'm not so desperate that I would ever allow a man to walk all over me and treat me like dirt.
2006-10-06 04:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not. we all find other ppl attractive at times, but mystery is half the fun. There is no thing as just once. You're either a cheater and swinger or you're not. Just show your man you love him and let him do the same for you.
2006-10-06 04:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes hun i wod want to know if my man is being a bad boy flirtin with friends late from work coming home drunk smellin of perfume lipstick on his coller al the signs r there hun so if u love him sit down and talk if not then kick him out
2006-10-06 05:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by erowe12jb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know if he were attracted to someone else, but in all honesty I don't see what good it would do, cause I have to trust that he'd behave, and knowing would only make me worry. I would never agree to "let" him see another woman, if he wanted to do that, we would have to end it.
2006-10-06 04:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id want to know i think if he was attracted to someone.
but id get really really jealous, so maybe better off not knowing, cause if im thinking he s attracted to someone else, i ll be thinking he d want to sleep with them, he could lie and tell me he never would, but id always feel insecure about it.
so if you are attracted to someone i would advise you prob not tell your girlfirend even if you wanna be totally honest, somethings better left unsaid.
2006-10-06 04:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if I as a woman wanted to feel inferior and screwed up for the rest of the relationship... so NO.. without a doubt
if you want to stray, whats the point of being together??
2006-10-06 04:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by tiny_lou1965 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to tempt fate or him. He is after all human with weaknesses.........so why play such a silly game. It might backfire.
2006-10-06 12:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, never....
2006-10-06 04:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not
2006-10-06 06:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋