Ever since I was young and saw Penny get handgagged on "Inspector Gadget" I've had a strong fascination and attraction to witnessing girls made helpless and unable to speak. The mmmphing sound they make when trying to call out for help is just so arousing to me, plus the sight of her wiggling hands and wrists as she tries to claw and tear free of the rope or tape! Love it! I feel afraid to share my love of bondage with anyone though, for fear of being labeld a perv, psycho or any other negative term you can think of. Are my feelings valid and should they remain hidden or is bondage more socially acceptable then I realize. It's all fantasy mind you, but I still feel afraid to mention it to anyone. Am I Ok for being turned on by the sights and sounds of helpless girls? Please tell me I'm not nuts
2006-10-05 21:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Seriously...who can say? Everyone has a "thing" of some sort. Yours isn't any more freakish than the others. The key is finding someone who digs it as much as you do. And, uh, they have personals sites for that sort of thing...you're fine. you're okay. you're quite normal. And if you don't believe me, check out the very much alive and kicking bondage niche of the porn industry. As far as bondage being accepted, there's a scene for just about everything...you should find some acceptance with likeminded individuals...right? i'm more curious as to who you'd be mentioning it to that wouldn't accept it. it's really not the sort of thing to toss out in dinner conversation with the folks. i think as long as your arousal is centered around nonviolence -- that is not wanting to really hurt or harm anyone -- then it's not a bad thing. But then...i'm a bit of a freak...so...consider the source. good luck with that.
2006-10-05 21:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by darkfantasy_girl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude as long as it's consensual and everyone involved is of age, go for it. It's funny because that is so opposite of me, I can't stand the idea of bondage. See your fetish has a name so it can't be too bad. There are actually women out there who would enjoy being tied up and gagged so you just need to find them. I'm not sure how to go about that, because I'm a married strictly vanilla kind of girl, but I know places exist (I read alot)
2006-10-05 21:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a very common fetish, if you look around on the net you will find tons and tons of sites picturing only bound and gagged women. The pure volume of that should be an indicator for you that you're not alone in this...
2006-10-05 21:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're fetish interests are pretty normal.. so long as you don't have duct tape and a shovel and ask me to take a drive, down some lonely country road.
2006-10-05 21:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Manatee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nonce Alert!
2006-10-05 21:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by puggtiracer 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, i can tell you you aren't nuts, cause i too, at a very young age liked this stuff too. and honestly, i still do i find it well i guess, attractive or something like that. so that's all i can tell you.
2013-11-13 08:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rayman'S Raving Rabbids 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm aroused by pervert...Does that make others have the rights to call me nuts? No, You are ok. pervert.you're just different.
Oh by the way that was just an example
2006-10-05 21:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by TheWillBe 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Welcome to the club! There are dozens of sites all over the web dedicated to Damsels in Distress. Take a look here
http://www.myonlineimages.com/members/CordeFR/Ligotage/
and you see that you are not alone.
2006-10-05 23:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by cordefr 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are obviously a pervert..as long as you do it in the privacy of your own home with consenting adults its your own affair...becareful not to let it get out of hand tho....
2006-10-05 21:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by geordie.lady 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
No not at all. most guys like that at least a little. i think its hot. like roleplay. kinda. btu not really. im into handcuffs whips, chains, ropes, you no
2006-10-05 21:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋