It's cool but dont realy know wqqat to dot about it hlep plz?

Question

I went to a sperm ban cuz me and kimber want children and i did it now i am 2 months pregnant but wont the child want to know his/her dad??

I know i had to think about it first but i dident

can evrey bodey stop tellin me i cant spell i live in holloand where thay speak a total diffrant lanugege ok so plz stop tellin me i cant spell

Answer 1

your child will want to know where he or she comes from at some point yes ! but this is only natural as everyone wants to know where they come from ... as faras i know sperm donors lost there anaminity this year so the child would be able to go to the sperm bank and question who what where why when... but all you should be worried about just now is giving that child the best start in life and loving him or her as this is your child !!!! regardless of where he or she comes from !!!!

Answer 2

Quite possibly it will want to know it's biological father someday but as far as it's concerned it's dad will be your partner - Kimber? Are you in a lesbian relationship? sorry it's just I've never heard of the name Kimber used in a masculine way in the UK.
Either way chances are the sperm bank won't give out those kind of details. It's usually against the law so to protect the annonomity of the sperm donor. As long as the babys well loved & cared for - it shouldn't really matter.

Answer 3

It doesn't matter whether you can spell or not because 'I really cannot understand what you question is,' nor in fact if you have one!

I have known many Dutch people and have Dutch friends over the years. Each has spoken English as a second or even a third language and, generally speaking, spoken it better than a lot of English people. They could (can) make themselves understood both in their speaking and in their writing ....and as I said, from what you have written asking for help, 'Help for What'?

I've no idea what form of help is needed, nor for!

Sorry.
Sash.

Answer 4

It is possible but what you would need to consider is, if the father wanted to be found, he probably wouldn't just donate to a sperm bank as there is a level of anonomosity there.
Just make sure your child is always aware of it when they are at an age of understanding but make sure they also know they are loved and if it ever comes to that point, help them. They're not going to love you any less!

Answer 5

dont worry bout the spellin coz im english and i cant spell either honestly i wouldnt worry approach wen it comes up thats all u can do u obviously want this child and im sure u gona love it so just see how it turns out but dont lie if u tell the child if the issue arrises then u will b able to tell them honestly we wanted him/her so badly thatw as the only way u could get them and support them i do believe though if a child is happy the issue shouldnt arrise till they r much much older if they hav had a happy balanced upbringin then i dont c it bein a prob

Answer 6

well some children except that you and your partner are there parents but others will want to the best thing to do is o be upfront wih them tell them that you went to a sperm bank and then let them make up there own minds the best option tho is to be up front with them.but truthfully would it be a massive problem if the child did want to know there own dad? good luck and congrats

Answer 7

tell the truth from the start kids who love their parents do just that, they Love. A child can cope with the news that Mommy and Daddy had to go to hospital to get help making a baby, in the real world children cope with much more painful and disturbing news than artificial insemination.

Answer 8

your child may want to meet there dad and may not i mean by then u could of meet someone and they could be the father just because u used a mans sperm dosent mean they can be a true father good luck iam sure u will be enough for your child xx

Answer 9

what you wanted is child in the first place. so accept this and tell God thanks. The issue of a dad if it comes your way that time you will be able to handle it in many way. Some children are born and fathers die, others reject them and this does not stop them from living without fathers, so don't worry.

Answer 10

they probably will at one point and time- i think the best thing to tell them when they ask is this: I wanted a child so much and could not find the perfect man for me so i chose this route- as much as this may hurt you i want you to know that i wanted you and that i love you more than anything else in the world. and besides some men complicate things to much ( if it is a she and she askes in her teen- twentys she'll agree)