2006-10-05 20:58:15 · 15 answers · asked by intruder 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I noe it's never easy. Especially someone who is like-minded.
2006-10-07 22:18:53 · update #1
If you're gay, I dunno.
I always thought hooking up in a same sex relationship would be marginally easier than a straight one since you already know you have similar backgrounds. :S
2006-10-05 21:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I've asked myself the same question. It is difficult because it has to come from within... from within yourself.
First, u have to be honest w/ yourself. Not only that but you have to be happy w/ yourself. No self doubts at all. Then, once you're happy and honest with yourself, then it will show in the way you act, dress, talk, and present yourself to the public or your friends and family. It'll show on your face as well, your eyes most especially and you'll probably smile alot and laugh. Finally, you will be able to meet your love (unexpectedly as what the others said) because once you love yourself, you are now able and ready to love another. ;o) Socialization is the key to meeting other people and maybe your life partner. So just take your time and take it easy. It'll come someday. Just be patient.
I'm still in the first stage and I'm trying to be patient as well. Remember, you're not alone in the search of a life partner/companion. We all are. Good luck. ;o)
2006-10-08 23:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking is like that.
Ever consider you might be attempting to force things into the way you want them to be rather than accepting the things the way they were "meant" to be for you? I mean, you might already know "the one" but have never stopped to consider them in that way.
While I don't know your situation, I do know the feeling. My advice would be, stop "looking" and simply get your mental "house" in order knowing that the right person will show up when it's time for them to arrive. I'm not saying sit home and wait for the right one to knock on your door, just go out, live your life, and leave yourself open to the possibilities that come your way.
Trust me, it DOES work, and I have almost 7 years with my other half to prove it.
2006-10-06 08:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem... and my problem stems from the fact that gay men are SO superficial about looks. Don't get me wrong, I'm not disgusting looking or malformed or anything, but I'm not Brad Pitt, so gay men don't give me a second glance.
Gay men look for arm candy that they can show off to their friends, regardless of how much that arm candy may be a complete idiot, total loser, or treat them badly.
2006-10-06 13:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by pceej 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have too high of standards. I realize that it's when I'm not looking for anything is when I end up getting into a relationship. Don't worry, you will find someone eventually or they will come to you.
2006-10-11 15:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you try SDS or SDU. You can make more friends from there and you may find your partner there too
2006-10-06 11:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be happy with yourself first before you can truly have a meaningful relationship.
people smell people running away from themselves.
2006-10-06 06:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy to find your perfect match. You are looking to hard. It will happen when you least expect it.
2006-10-06 09:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you're in good company! A lot of us are wondering this same thing?
2006-10-06 13:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tenacious is rite! U gotta b happy 1st.
2006-10-06 05:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Imanobody 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋