he beat for 3 years so i finally ended last december because i didnt want my daughter to grow up seeing daddy always beating mommy! he stalks me and stuff! it took awhile to get over him and still hits me sometimes when i see him but not to much since i took him to court. but the thing is i fell in love AGAIN with this guy hes 21 and i am head over heals for him. he likes me alot to but he is moving to CA in like 2 days for his dads budiness hell be back in spring! i just want it to work out. i love him so much it hurts. it hurts if i think bout him geting wit someone else while hes there i believe he will be faithful but i would never kno if he wasnt! im going to ruin what me and him have if i keep thinking like this huh?? now back to the babys dad.. he stalks me and never leaves me alone he just found out i was with the guy im with and he flipped he went physco now he said hes going to try and get the baby from me! im a good mom there isnt ne way he can take her from me right??
2006-10-05 20:45:10 · 6 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i love daughter more then ne thing in this world!!!! and im a good mom!! i am young but i work and everything. i dont hit or scream at her. she has food and a bed! she is my everything if i lose her i wouldnt kno what to do!!
2006-10-05 20:46:40 · update #1
Get a lawyer. He may be scum and unfit for parenting, but scum has been known for lying and slandering. A lawyer will help you from being painted as the bad parent and emphasize to the court just why he needs to have limited and supervised visits with your daughter.
2006-10-05 20:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being a sixteen-year-old girl (my father's the only man in my house--I also live with my mother and thirteen-year-old sister) I can say that, yes, a father does get outnumbered in some conflicts... but usually only in ones that are male vs. female arguments. A lot of the time, girls will agree with their dads on certain things. Don't think that your wife and girls are out to get you. ^_^ However, if you were able to deal with a twice-pregnant wife and two young girls up until this point, I think you'll manage for another two years until your youngest is an adult. Just remember, conflict doesn't make up the most of a life (hopefully) and not all conflicts are solved through sheer numbers. A good argument and good delivery will bring anyone to their knees.
2016-03-27 06:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant take your daughter from you
No court would give a child to a violent father, even if you were a terrible mother - but you a clearly a great mum
get away from this guy. In the uk there is help for women and children to escape from this violence, it is there in America too
does the good guy know about your ex? maybe he can help. See a doctor - they should always beable to put you in touch woth the right people
good luck - dont wait too long
2006-10-05 21:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by miz Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the District Attonreys office and get FULL legal rights of your daughter, then get a protective order on him so that he has to stay away from u and your baby and then move. You cant let an azz like that ruin or control your life. Best wishes
2006-10-05 21:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as your abusive husband is concerned get a restraining order from the court and inform the cops. The man that u love so much, have faith in him and in your love for him. He will return, I am sure. GOD Bless u and your kid.
2006-10-05 21:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by majorcavalry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE STRONG YOU WILL BE THE ONE TO PROVE YA THE BETTER PARENT SO KEEP RECORDS ON YA EX BOYFRIEND PROVE IT ON RECORDS HE BEEN IN JAIL AND HE HOLD NO JOB HE TRYING TO STALK YOU GET A RESTRAINING ORDER ON HIM STAY SAFE FIND A SAFE HOUSE LET HOPE THE POLICE NAB HIM
2006-10-05 20:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋