i maried about 22 years ago when i was young and i was with my dear wife and i loved her but about 3 years ago she got sick i took her to hospital but they couldnt do any thing for her so she dide and make me lonly now i got older filing lonly but no boudy i mine no girle wanths me now i need some one like her but i cant find her
2006-10-05 20:45:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know how you feel ,I just lost my husband,feb 10, 2006 He was my soul mate, just know that your wife would not wont you to mourn her for the rest of your life, she is with GOD, and she is not hurting anymore, maybe you need to talk to a counselor, I know it has helped me I saw my husband suffer with cancer for 13mo. then GOD,called him home. I miss him so much, but I know he wants me to go on. I don't know if you like dancing or not, but that is what helps me being around people, I also play darts. Just try to find something you enjoy.I know it is sad, and very hard but we have to go on for them. I WISH YOU THE BEST.there is no one that is like your wife, but you will meet someone who will understand, and be a friend, just don't sit home and think about the love of your life, she will always be with you, she would not want you to be so unhappy. GOD has a plan for our lives,we just have to trust HIM. I know I AM hurting too. you need to be with people, believe me it helps talk about her to others and if you cry, that is okay because if you hold it in it will hurt you.
2006-10-05 23:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to find Her....... The worst thing you could do is look for someone to fill her shoes. I know lots of people who didn't want to date for a very long time after losing their life partner. The best thing to do is live the rest of your days doing what you like. And when that special someone comes into your life, you'll know. And then you can enjoy what they have to offer.
2006-10-06 04:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by redheffer_69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try looking for a woman not a girl.you are 48.Eventually you'll find somebody if you look at the right place.I am sorry for your loss.
2006-10-06 04:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your wife...don't get mad at me for saying this, but, get off the computer and go out!...Find something that interests you and go try it, ex: Yoga, or going to the gym...Join a community social club, there are all kinds of things you could participate in if you search your local city guide for events and happenings in your area...just get out and do things...
2006-10-06 04:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get another woman.
2006-10-06 03:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋