what do i do?

Question

I have been with my Man for 5 years and he has Epilepsy but refuses to take medication, and the problem is i get to be the one to deal with the situation when it happens cause it only happens when he is asleep. what do i do, please help

Answer 1

i think you need to talk to him about it, epilepsy can be VERY serious if he wont take his meds. tell him how you feel, ask him why he wont take his meds? he need to know that not taking them wont make it go away it will make it worse. both my parents suffer from epilepsy and its hard to deal with so i know how you feel. please tell him how important it is to take the medication prescribed to him. good luck

Answer 2

You don't say one way or the other, but many people refuse the allopathic road and prefer naturopathic remedies instead. Perhaps saying he refuses to take medication is a bit misleading. I'd refuse to take that poison myself. However you gloss over this information to focus on your real concern. You don't want to be saddled with his epileptic fits. What do I do? Good night! There are only two options. Put up with it or find yourself another Man with other problems. Make a decision, then live with it. I mean, it is not exactly like you love the guy, right?.

Answer 3

Just talk to him and explain the situation to him and how it is making you feel.
If he really cares about you he will see that his behaviour is unfair and putting you in an uncomfortable situation that you should not have to deal with.

If he still refuses then walk away.

Answer 4

I think you need to read some information on co-dependency. You have some kind of stake in the relationship, or you'd leave.

Answer 5

If he doesn't take his meds tell him that you will leave him until he does and do it!!! He is only hurting himself and maybe this will help. Hopefully this will be only temporary.

Answer 6

put his medication in his food
i know its harsh but it has to be
done