How to make up my mind towards happiness...?

Question

I asked a query below as I liked a girl but i have to leave her...
See that query... She made me total confusing...
I have to make up my mind towards happiness.... Help me..

Answer 1

Happiness is an illusion... Like life, It is what happens when we are busy making other plans.
If you have just ended a relationship and it left you totaly confused maybe you need to give yourself a break. Be kind to yourself and watch how you talk to yourself so that it is up beat and not depressive... It takes everyone time to get over a breakup...
just regroup review for yourself what you think you want in life and look around...there are plenty of other fish in the sea so to speak...just let yourself heal from the breakup wound and you will soon feel happiness again...be patient and it will change again.

Answer 2

Daily life can be made happier. It is a matter of choice. It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy. It is true, we meet all kinds of situations during the day, and some of them may not be conductive to happiness. We can choose to keep thinking about the unhappy events, and we can choose to refuse to think about them, and instead, relish the happy moments. All of us constantly go through various situations and circumstances, but we do not have to let them influence our reactions and feelings.
if we let outer events influence our moods, we become their slaves. We lose our freedom. We let our happiness be determined by outer forces. On the other hand, we can free ourselves from outer influences. We can choose to be happy, and we can do a lot to add happiness to our lives. What is happiness? It is a feeling of inner peace and satisfaction. It is usually experienced when there are no worries, fears or obsessing thoughts, and this usually happens, when we do something we love to do or when we get, win, gain or achieve something that we value. It seems to be the outcome of positive events, but it actually comes from the inside, triggered by outer events.
always think positive n keep in mind what god is Doing is very well 4 u......
1) Endeavor to change the way you look at things. Always look at the bright side. The mind may drag you to think about negativity and difficulties. Don't let it. Look at the good and positive side of every situation.
2) Think of solutions, not problems.
3) Listen to relaxing, uplifting music.
4) Watch funny comedies that make you laugh.
5) Each day, devote some time to reading a few pages of an inspiring book or article.
6) Watch your thoughts. Whenever you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts, start thinking of pleasant things.
7) Always look at what you have done and not at what you haven't.
Sometimes you may begin the day with the desire to accomplish several objectives. At the end of the day you might feel frustrated and unhappy, because you haven't been able to do all of those things.
Look at what you have done, not at what you have not been able to do. You may have accomplished a lot during the day, and yet you let yourself become frustrated, because of some small things that you did not accomplish. You have spent all day successfully carrying out many plans, and instead of feeling happy and satisfied, you look at what was not accomplished and feel unhappy. It is unfair toward yourself.
8) Each day do something good for yourself. It can be something small, such buying a book, eating something you love, watching you favorite program on TV, going to a movie, or just having a stroll on the beach.
9) Each day do at least one act to make others happy. This can be a kind word, helping your colleagues, stopping your car at the crossroad to let people cross, giving your seat in a bus to someone else, or giving a small present to someone you love. The possibilities are infinite. When you make someone happy, you become happy, and then people try to make you happy.
10) Always expect happiness.........best of luck!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Dont get confussed, if u like her very much propose to her and get married, if not leave the city and go away without informing to her.

U have to have control over u r mind
If u want happiness start talking u r problems to u r parents and I think parents r the wonderful friends in this universe( I have experienced this situation)

Answer 4

People who love can't help but gain within themselves. I had to surrender something to come to the truth. I gave up the fancy that a relationship with'' the perfect one'' would make me happy. I now saw that all along I had been searching for a person outside myself to validate me. to confer on me the approval I thought I needed. But now in my adversity, I turned to this wonderful universal powerhouse we know as God.

Answer 5

Is your girl named "Happiness"?
What's the problem in making up your mind 'towards' her?
Just face her straight in front, and say "Hey Girl!
I like you!"
Why are you confused? Will anyone like to marry someone so confused as you? Will you??

Answer 6

first prepare urself to be happy, break all the worries and come out, speak to anybody with smile, read lot of comic books, see lots and lots of comedy movies and pictures. Have fun with friends..and relax

Answer 7

Naresh, learn English! What does it mean making up your mind towars happiness??? Join a HINDI site if you express yourself in that language

Answer 8

Because of your emotional involvement, you feel so. I am dam sure, you will overcome this attachment after some time, and will discover the happiness with somebody else, till then reconsolidate yourself.

Answer 9

Choose.

Answer 10

wHEN CONFUSED, CHOSE THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE, NARESH.