weve split up over 2 years ago and since then he has been haunting me in my dremas.okay,so i did broke his heart.its actually a long story and to make it short i wanted 2 leave him b4 i came 2 england,but he decided 2 come 2.then after a month here i told him i cant go on anymore. then a few days after that he saw me with some one else.its driving me nuts!
2006-10-05 19:59:54 · 11 answers · asked by moonangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You feel guilty about it coz you didn't want 2 go on a relationship with some1 that was mad about you and you never felt the same so you thought breaking his heart was the only way to go.
Your dreams only lay on your mistakes and your worries, you may never loved him nor liked him but do still care about him or have a thing for him.
1) Most men wouldn't come after a girl when they leave the country, they choose 2 breakup and that shows how much they cared about them. Thats what must suprised you coz he wouldn't give up on u.
2)You choose to be seen with someone else and know that this must of killed him from the start, just my lookin' and thats what suprised you coz you knew you hurt him and got ride off him once and for all but again you still felt quiet messed up cuz you knew that was the lowest thing you could do to that person.
The worse part is tryin' 2 forget it ever happen coz u may get crazy about this guy even more but the best thing 2 do is try to connect to him and apologys for your behaviour and nothin' more.
If you tell him that you wanna be friends after what has happen and yes it was 2 years but a heart last longer in the past than in the present, and this problem want reverise and you got hurt badly would you say YES!! or NO!!.
The best thing is to just talk and ask how eachother days are and just talk. Thats the best advice i could give u.
Good bye and Good luck
2006-10-05 20:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dreaming about the pain you caused a decent person, you are not missing your boyfriend. You were ready to end this relationship before you left for England and you feel like a 1st classs heel because you allowed him to not only move here after you but that he caught you cheating. You realize that a guy who apparently worshipped you has been hurt by you in a myriad of ways. Unfortunately for you, there is no way to make it right and you will have to come to terms with it and pomise yourself never to cheat on a loved one again. Please don't let this haunt you, because you don't miss your old beau. Besides, your issues are hurting your chances of ever meeting the real true love of your life
2006-10-05 20:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Michael P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably feeling bad for letting him move to another country for you even though you wanted to break it off before you went to England. You should have done it at least before he decided to go to England after you. It's your conscience. Sorry but I don't have any advice. We all have to live with the decisions we've made and the people we've hurt. This was a big hurt.
2006-10-05 20:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just your guilty self conscience playing up.. they say we dream about whats really eating at us.. but you did the right thing in the end of it all so don't be so hard on yourself.. when you forgive yourself I'm sure the dreams will stop.. maybe get in touch with him and tell him how sorry you are , that you8 never meant to hurt him ,, but be clear and don;t give him any false hope, well thats how i would handle it anyways.. good luck!
2006-10-05 20:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not want to be with but you do not want somebody else to be with. This is not done.Why do you get upset if he is with somebody else - envy, feeling of guilty ? Fact that you dream of him shows you have not forgotten him.
Think qietly aplogize to him if you cannot leave him or let him be happy with someone else.
2006-10-05 20:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant get over one person until and unless u meet the next one and then also gradually and slowly u accept that person, this is wat i hv analyzed and realized frm life, so dont force urself to forget him, just try and meet new people, dont b lonely, do things which inetest u, and go with the flow, once u meet the next person, u gonna b better each day
2006-10-05 20:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilt eating you up? Go apoligize... That's all you CAN do...
It will give you closer, make him feel not so abandoned and help you get a lil' shut eye...
2006-10-05 20:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by NappingNinja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still carry that guilt.
2006-10-05 20:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by junior 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just move on,it's over.
2006-10-05 20:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop thinking about him!! maybe your still thinking about how you made him feel...
forget about him and go on with your life
2006-10-05 20:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by mitchiegirl14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋