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2006-10-05 19:47:51 · 13 answers · asked by monnie2006 2 in Social Science Psychology

Social and environmental aspects.

2006-10-05 19:50:52 · update #1

13 answers

Some town in Crete, Greece!

2006-10-05 20:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0 0

It surprises many parents to hear this, but the ideal environment for children to grow up has very little to do with their home, their wealth, or any other material things. The environment is created by the parents, and should ideally be a loving and caring marital and family environment. Children get their sense of security from their parents. If the parents are having problems, either personal or with each children, children feel their security base is threatened, and their behaviour will reflect this anxiety. The best parents can do for their children is first of all to look after themselves, because they are the only mother and father that child will ever have. When parents are happy, confident, and secure in their lives and relationships, they are best able to give their children the same.

2006-10-05 23:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by shakespear 3 · 0 0

An environment where people really help others to rise up, than conspiring to pull someone down, where everyone doesn't think of only himself and where love is abundant, so abundant that you can grow love in trees. That will be a great world! Yet challenges will not be absent because only in this can we truly become strong and face the world. Remember, fire can hurt you, burn you, even kill you, yet it's the same fire that produces steel. A world the happiness and trials live harmoniously together will be an ideal world.

2006-10-06 01:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by psyche 2 · 0 0

An environment where children can observe all the things they are supposed to learn, and can ask to people who are experienced in what is taught, where there is no contradiction to be seen between what is taught and practised.... This way the education is complete, quick, sustaining and above all very creative. Such an environment would create not just knowledgeable adults, but nation-builders, leaders !

2006-10-05 21:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0 0

I think nature is important. Children can develop and satisfy their endless curiosity by having lots of time in the outdoors with plants, animals and the clear blue sky or what ever other kind of weather.

Children benefit from time with their parents, all together or one on one. Parents have the most reason to invest their resources in their own children. Family stories are important too. It grounds us in whow we are and where we come from. Being around elderly relatives who care helps tons.

I was fortunate to go to a small private school where the students were hand picked. One of the *worst* things that happened to me was that a third grader asked me, a second grader, who my favorite Beatle was. When I answered "Ringo", she stuck her nose in the air and denounced me as "immature". I was seven. I knew full well at that moment that I was meant to be immature. I laughed so hard. Anyway, that was about the worst thing. I didn't hear the word sh*t until I was eleven and I asked quite seriously what it meant. The other child did not tell me, my mom did .

I tell you this, because anywhere that children can be protected from all the garbage while they learn what's really important, it is the greatest gift you can give. We have the entire rest of our lives to deal with the down side of humanity, but if you've never learned how sweet & evolved life can be, where can you learn it later? And do you believe it if you've been stuck with miserable mean kids and neglectful adults from the beginning?

Children need to know that there are differences between right and wrong. They need to be shown by examples and honesty from the adults around them. They need to learn cause and effect. They do not need physical punishment. We all thrive on praise given for work well done.

Every child needs to be acknowledged as an individual from conception, preferably. They need to know the value of their own individuality and that all living things are created to be individual for a reason. It can't just be words, either. Even snow flakes and grains of sand are unique. With this knowledge, it is possible, " to do unto others as you would have done to you". There is no better basis for equality. In fact, there is no other basis for equality.

I used some examples from my life for you to compare to experiences you have had. Most important, I think, is to have some one in your life (for me it was both my parents and the principal of my elementary school) who tells you with absolute sincerity, "You can do anything you set your mind to if you work at it".

2006-10-05 20:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Susan M 7 · 0 0

children are like liquid , can ever you see the water? it takes the form of that vessel in which it is poured.
similarly in what shape you want to convert the personality of your children you can.
children's mind usually builds up at the age of 15 it is a research .
so during that mind buliding process children acquire and deserve very healthy , positive and secure environment.
provide such environment where they can accomplish their tasks successfully.
children usually become happy when they are appreciated and they starting loving those who appreciate them.
children should be involved in creative activities where they feel confident about theirselves.give them those games which not only involve physical exercise but also mental too.
children usually hesitate to perform any work because ithey are strictly forbidden by their parents
parents are grown up people they can distinguish between right and wrong. so they should adopt flexibility in their behaviour towards children.if something is wrong parents little bit beat them but not that much or perform or act like this that this is not good. bad children usually do such things but my child you are not bad you are a hero.tell them in a advising way that don't sit or act such activities if you do this all people gonna hate you aand we too.so child this thing is not good if he insists then perform in such a way that children would teach a lesson from such things and avoid them in their earlier life.
children have a great influence of fights of their parents which naturally can disturb their personalities and make them double minded.
so avoid fights if you want to fight go to any alone place and do fight or send your child to your relative or his friend home and then do fighting.
love can conquer the mountains so love should be the best remedy for bringing up your children.
let them to performance their work and try hard to give as much time as it is possible.from this they will not find love from outside world instead they will love you.
if you give time to them in their childhood they would definitely give time to you in your old age.
teach them the leason to be the good citizens.make them aware of good and bad aspects of the society. advice them and make them a true person who always want welfare of people.
people nowsaday are very selfish but children are not people . children are children after all inject a beautiful habit of helping others.
divorce can spoil up the life of children they in return take revenge from their children .
if your parents don't give attentions or get separated, it does not mean ,that they left us , spoiled our lives now we will not let our children to be free of this curse.
you adults you, can set up the examples of good parents which can carry on generation to generations
child usually have favourite hero, that could be any sports hero, movies etc, so heroes should set good example before soceity because children usuallly follow them . if they are good , do good things then children will also good things.
health is the basic right of any children , provide them but not let children to be the victim of obsession , let children to fight against any disease bravely don't fear them. fear them when when they are careless.
parents should put their eyes on what type of company their children are adopting in. do they have good time in school etc
their studies progress, let them to be exeptional , reward them over their victory.
but also learn them the leason of sportmanship which indicate that they appreciate opponents performance .along with this encourage them also to performed well but but there is some deficiency that's why you lose .enforce them to remove that deficiency so that they can win later.
this method not only bring confidence but also make them hardworking , selfmade and competing individuals,
love , peace and braveness.
all that children should have in their personality.
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2006-10-05 22:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by schneidernn 3 · 0 0

an environment that provides:
love, support, opportunities, hope
emotional, mental and physical guidance
mentoring to develop their strenghts and deal with their weaknesses

2006-10-05 22:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Claire 4 · 0 0

A happy, secure enviroment

2006-10-05 19:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Connie 1 · 0 0

Love.

2006-10-05 21:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by J.C. Philippines 2 · 1 0

an environment which inside & outside of people is simillar.

2006-10-05 20:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by ddm 1 · 0 0

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