how do guys feel about implants?

Question

opinions?

Answer 1

I prefer normal breasts myself, and I find that size Ds turn me off. But, that is only my own opinion.

Implants are expensive and a big investment; to me, I wonder why the woman feels that she needs to do this. What is so wrong with the way she looks? Of course if that is what the woman needs to help her self-image, and she can afford it then I am not going to stand in her way. I may not want to date here either. If she is so vain or has such a low self-esteem then I may not want to waste my time on her. She might look good on my arm at a party, and she could even be fun to have sex with, but she wouldn’t be someone I would want to forge a long term relationship with her.

Pamela Anderson has implants, and a year or to ago she had them reduced a full cup size. I haven't really noticed the difference, and I consider her a bit of a skank, but again that's just my opinion.

I answered a question from a woman a few days ago asking if her friend could deduct Breast Implants for a Stripper as a valid business expense? I have worked as an H&R Block Tax Preparer so I know something about the issue. I told her that yes it would be a valid deduction, but only if she reported her job as a stripper. The woman had a very good question the implants would enhance her revenue, but few men want to bring a stripper home to meet their mother. The breast implants would have improved her income, but I don't think they would really improve her social life.

Dolly Parton freely admits that she has had plastic surgery and implants so she can look good for the fans. I don't have a problem with that. She has an image and seems to be happy with it, even if she had to have some help from a surgeon to create that image. If a woman wants implants for that reason then I would support her, but I would question if she really needed it.

Robert A. Heinlein once said "No woman is ugly, you just have to look harder for it in some women." A few women do need extra help. Hair dye, cosmetics, false eyelashes, hair extensions and a lot of other items are used to help improve a woman’s appearance. Since men want to date pretty or beautiful women then I don’t have a problem with it (I am a guy, and I feel the same way). So by that line of reasoning I shouldn’t have a problem with breast implants, but I do. That’s because I feel breast implants are too radical. You can buy years worth of cosmetics, hair dye and beauty saloon visits for what a breast implant operation costs. Cosmetics feature a woman’s beautiful features, and down plays those that aren’t. Hair dye is a minor change. But, breast implants are an invasion of the body. There are even reported side effects and dangers from having the operation and continuing to wear the breast implants. Pamela Anderson has reported this. Taking these risks just seem to be too much.

High heels and foot wrapping by the Japanese create undeniable damage to women. Yet they are fashionable and most American women have at least one pair of high heels; they like the look that it creates in her body (I have to admit that I can like it as well). Despite this high heels aren’t as risky as breast implants, and foot wrapping is out of style now (since feet aren’t erotic to me I don’t see the attraction in foot wrapping).

Some men have breast fetishes, and like huge breasts. So if you are going for that kind of guy then breast implants might be a good way to go. But, a fetish is a minor form of sexual deviant behavior. Do you really want to date someone like that; do you really want to date a man who loves your breasts more than the rest of your body, your mind, or yourself?

Personally I don’t like breast implants they are a radical change to a woman and, to me, that represents a fundamental flaw with the person. If you feel that you need them to look good, and for your self-image then get them, but I would question that need.

I had the “hots” for Buffy: Sarah Michelle Gellar. Call it the cheerleader syndrome. I like her as a blond, even though she is a natural brunette. She is also a woman with a modest breast size (okay, she has a small breast). I still like the image of Buffy; a strong beautiful woman, but I didn’t start to like her so much until season six when she grew up and stopped being a dumb blonde. I like woman that have brains. After all breasts are nice to look at, but have you ever tried to have a conversation with them? By themselves they are pretty stupid and don’t have much to say. If I want to date a woman then I want someone I can talk with and have a real relationship with. Dyeing your hair blond may seem a little unreal, but I don’t mind that we all do minor things to make ourselves look good. Breast implants are just too much and too radical for me.

If you need breast implants because of a mastectomy or other disfigurement then that is a different situation. There you are just trying to return to what you were, and if my wife had such a problem I would want her to get the implants so she can return to normal. It will help improve her self-image and that will help with the recovery process. A mastectomy is a disfigurement and I think that the real purpose of plastic surgery is to help a person return to their normal looks. Some cosmetic things like tightening the face and other procedures are debatable to me, again I would want the woman to feel comfortable with themselves, but I would still question why the way they looked wasn't good enough.

My sister has a wrinkle just above her mouth, and I can’t help staring at it, because to me it is not normal. However, it is only a product of her being middle aged so it is natural, but it is not the sister I remember. She hasn’t done anything about it and has talked to a doctor about using botox for it (she can’t because of its position). So I know she has looked into having it fixed. She hasn’t done anything so I do my best to not stare at it anymore. It is something that she has accepted, so I have to do my best to accept it myself. I don’t think this makes me a hypocrite, because anything done to that wrinkle wouldn’t compare to having breast implants. It would be a minor change, and if it would make her happier then I would support her. She also has a modest breast size and I know that I would not like her to get breast implants. I also know that her husband can afford them, so he must fill similar to how I do. She just wouldn’t be the same person with a set of “honkers.”

Answer 2

Well im a woman, I was always very underweight so I never had a chest. When i was 18 I got implants and I love them. I went to a size that doesn't look fake, to tell you the truth men couldn't even tell. When I told my boyfriend he didn't believe me. Eventually now I put on a little weight so you can't tell at all. Men love boobs no matter what. It's made me a lot more confident in myself. As long as you take care of them(so they dont stay up straight) you cant even tell. I did a good size so they don't look fake at all. It never stopped men from dating me. If you love someone you'll accept it.

p.s look at the satistics of how extremely commen breast implants are, you'll be amazed! so men out there, you never know you may end up with a girl who has them!


May, 2006

Breast Implants
A Research and Regulatory Summary

By Diana Zuckerman, PhD, and Elizabeth Santoro, RN, MPH

More women are getting breast implants than ever before. In 2005, more than 360,000 women and teenagers underwent breast implant surgery for augmentation1 and approximately 46,000 women underwent breast implant surgery for reconstruction after mastectomy.2 The number of breast augmentations of women and teenagers has more than tripled since 1997, when it was 101,176.3

However, the dramatic increase in breast implant surgery does not necessarily reflect a similarly dramatic increase in the number of women with breast implants. Many women who undergo surgery are replacing old implants that have broken or caused problems; some women report as many as ten or more surgeries as their implants are replaced over the years. There are no available statistics on how many women undergo their first breast implant surgery every year.

Debate swirls over the risks of breast implants, and physicians and patients are justifiably confused by the conflicting information available. This summary provides information about what is known and not known about the risks of breast implants.
the link is below if you don't believe me...

http://www.breastimplantinfo.org/news/bi-res-reg-sum.html

Answer 3

If your boobs are mishaped I geuss its ok, but Dolly Partons' is way to big - are those real by the way.

I think most celebs these days are doing implants

Answer 4

Any implants that will not result in guys snickering at you behind your back or in front of your face, you can't afford.

Answer 5

it shows a lack of self esteem. I don't think I could have a relationship with someone that would mutilate their body like that just so guys will turn their head. Don't knock small breasts. Some of us like them just fine. Big breasts distract me from admiring your eyes, hair and fine butt.

Answer 6

It's like picking up a beautiful red delicious apple and discovering...

it's wax.

Natural is the only way to go!

Answer 7

Personally I feel they detract from the senses, therefor make the person like a slab of fat

Answer 8

if the ones you have are mishaped or something is wrong then implants are fine..but i prefer small natural breasts

Answer 9

I like only naturals.

Answer 10

I love my garden, not big on house plants.