my hubby got married in 2001 and for the first year it was all good but then it just went down hill i found pictures of him and this other girl that was not so good he really never tells me that he loves him never tell me that i am doing a good job raising our kids but at the same time he never say anything bad to me .he never gets me anything never takes me out .i get him cards take him out for his b day i do everything for him what else can i do for this navy man? ps i found our land and now working on getting our house buit and i also sold our hose that we had i love him so much but i am at that end i want a man to tell me i am good looking to tell me i am doing a great job! yes we have talked about this before and it didnt help i need help what should i do we have 3 kids here i know i need to do what is best for them too
2006-10-05 18:41:36 · 9 answers · asked by Christine M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I no what you are going through I went through the very same thing.You are not going to believe me when I tell you this because when I was told I refused to believe it.My friends said he is sleeping with someone.NO not my husband well come to find out yes he was for over two years. He treated me like your husband is treating you right now.He never would tell me he loved me never a compliment about me or the house or thing I would do for him.Does all this sound formulator to you. my husband moved out for two and half years before he realize he did love me and that he made a big mistake by leaving me.he fell in love with me all over again that was 8 years ago and he loves me more now then he ever did. I had to let him go so he could find out for himself what he had right at home.It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do in my life and I hope and pray that I never have to go through that again.If it comes to that with your husband you will have to let him go so he can find his was back home to you Its the only way.He needs to find the love he has lost for you .He doesn't look at you as his pretty wife any more all he sees is the mother of his kids nothing sexual in that.Its like he is asleep and he needs to be wakened up and only he can do that.
2006-10-05 19:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by teeny r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 10 years and the same has happened to me. We also have 3 kids together and we are raising my nephew. I know we're still together for the kids. My mom did the same thing. It's not a whiny problem and there's very few that make it even through counseling. You just kinda have to make a life of your own until you feel the kids and yourself are ready for that change. We stay , I feel, because it's easier. Ask yourself if you need a Lovelife right now or are you willing to put it on hold until your kids get old enough to understand. Or is it making the kids miserable? Than it would be better to get out...
2006-10-05 19:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by redheffer_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pretty much solved the problem with the word "navy." I don't know very many military men who don't have control issues. Same w/cops. A lot of them I've interviewed say they were emotionally or physically abused growing up. They don't know how to show love or appreciate a good thing. (They = the ones I've talked to, not the group as a whole.)
2006-10-05 19:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just want dating and your wedding day back 24/7. Grow up, this real life. You emotional, whiney little girls make me ill. Stop reading Redbook and watching Oprah. Another thing, if you only hear one side of a story you have only heard HALF of the story...See a shrink if YOU need help.
2006-10-05 19:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need counseling, your husband doesn't have a wife he has a door mat. You need someone professional to help you. Good luck....
2006-10-05 18:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try some counseling.
2006-10-05 18:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he just like his dad?? if he is,,,breaK THE CYCLE and show and tell him how to treat a wife ,,lover and mom of his children
2006-10-05 23:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me some sexy pics i will tell you your good lokking as i will enjoy them jacsmith@yahoo.com i will send you a card
2006-10-05 20:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋