he kinda follows me around and appears out of no where. I tell him im not interested and he still calls. And he even came to my window like at 12 at night calling me.
2006-10-05 18:31:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you live with your parents? Tell them now. If he is showing up at your house at night, that is serious and needs to be dealt with immediately.
If you want, tell him to stop or you will tell your parents and his parents and even the police. But really, you should not give him any more chances. Play it safe. If you are worried about embarassing him, don't tell your friends. But tell someone!
2006-10-05 18:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's creepy. Especially popping up at your window at midnight. He already knows how you feel, and isn't taking the hint. I'm assuming you're under 18, since you said he's a boy. The best thing to do would be to tell an adult that has some authority-- a guidance counsellor at school, your parents, a teacher, etc.
2006-10-05 18:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's creepy. particularly capturing up at your window in the darkish. He already knows of ways you journey, and isn't any longer any further taking the hint. i'm assuming you're lower than 18, once you concentrate on that you suggested he's a boy. the major perfect component to do might want to be to inform an person that has some authority-- a training counsellor in college, your mom and pa, a instructor, and so on.
2016-12-04 08:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is stalking you, not kinda! Most sane people would back off after you have made it clear to them that you're not interested, so you may want to get the cops involved in this one. maybe a restraining order or something so at least it will be on record in case something happens. You should take this seriously cause there are a lot of nuts out there. good luck!
2006-10-05 18:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes its hard to tell someone in a mean way that your not interested but when it comes down to it, you are just being to nice and accepting and he IS stalking you! blocking his number should be a subtle enough hint, and if its not than you really need to go to the police, or your school, or his/your parents(depending on your age)
2006-10-05 18:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try getting about an 1/4 inch away from his face and wisper softly that if he doesnt stop you will K,i,l,l, him.then step back and smile at him, if he still doesnt stop call the police and get a restraining order.
2006-10-05 18:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The others are right, get a restraining order on him, and then maybe he'll know you mean business when you say you're not interested.
2006-10-05 19:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but if he doesn't quit put a resraining order on him. Then if he does come around again you can have him arrested. MAYBE then he'll get the picture
2006-10-05 18:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by chinadoll31645 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order.
2006-10-05 18:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nattie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is guy? And how old are you? I'm guessing 15+. Tell the police :))
2006-10-05 18:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋