Please i need help, his name is Gary, he's so dam shy, he never leaves his room he's about 23 and i took him to a party one time but he just stood by a wall and never talked to anyone, i dont understand whats wrong with him, he's skinny, he pees with the bathroom door wide open, and i dont even think he's ever had a girlfriend, he has never showed any interest in women either, and he takes long pauses when he does stuff, which just weirds me out, i've noticed that other asians at my school act like this too, when i asked him what he does for fun he didnt know what to say, he has no friends but he's been at this school for 7 years, crap i feel bad for him how can i help him? I dont like to see people like this, i dont think he's happy either, how could he be? Well please if anyone out there knows how i can help him please tell me, thank you.
2006-10-05 17:56:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get him a hooker and some condoms he's got seven years of goo to extract. damn seven years whats he takin brain surgery. if that aint depressin enough. no forget it just shoot the bastard and put him out of missery.
2006-10-05 18:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by crank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm an asian female...most Asian men have a tough time socially because (in America) they're not looked at as masculine. So, they may not have the same social practice and comfortability. Now, if he's straight off the boat, then he may just have cultural shyness. Just tell him to shut the door when he pees. If you have an asian-female friend, she may be able to help him out.
2006-10-05 18:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just weird, i'd be creeped out too, maybe it's an asian thing but i doubt it, i'm sure there's american people that act that way too, maybe (unless he's asian-american) he just feels out of place here and misses his home country or his family, i'm not sure there is a way you can really help him unless you just become his friend and start taking him everywhere with you so he meets some of your friends...anyway, good luck
2006-10-05 18:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by rlsangel18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to more partys or just out with the guys. Get him used to going out. That's all I know to do. good luck.
2006-10-05 17:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jenny J's answer however, Asian girl's may not help. Girls in general might!
2006-10-05 18:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by jazcy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not feel wanted here ,send the Asian away & quit feeling sorry for the sap.....
2006-10-05 18:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by BEERBELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he your responsibility? Maybe he doesn't feel bad about himself.
You are measuring him up against your own standards. People have their own ideas, personalities, and expectations. Maybe your ideals, ideas, are too high, or just different than his. Unless he asks for your help or advice, my advice is to just leave him alone. Help is no help, unless wanted.
2006-10-05 18:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nisey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmmm.....
Well it is a fact that Asians are timid people. Just observe him carefully and look for signs of what he likes to do to have fun.
Hope this helps.
Peace.
2006-10-05 18:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make him laugh get him 2 try new things...take him places n introduce ur friends 2 him make him part of your group....he'll start talking n doing stuff
2006-10-05 18:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun give up hope, bring him out as often as you can, he'll open up one day.
2006-10-05 18:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋