I need a push?

Question

to talk to this girl ive been wanting to talk to for a really long time cuz last year she started talking to me cuz i was standing by myself at my highschool in the morning you know before the bell rings to go to class and she says "your so lonely" lol and she's right. My friends weren't there yet so i just waited there. I talked to her for a bit and she said " i like your shirt" and i was like "ohh preciate it" and some more things idk what else but i havent talked to her since and i wanna talk but i cant find the courage to actually go up to her im a really shy guy when it comes to these things. What is a way where i can just do this without hesitating everyday? When i think about doing it like right before i do it i get REAL nervous my stomach starts to hurt and i HATE it. What do i do? I think she likes me cuz she just smiled at me for about 2 or 3 seconds and looked away

How can i talk to her if i keep walking away? How can i actually make myself go up to her?

Answer 1

Just talk to her, you don't have to flirt, just have a conversation with her, be yourself and don't let your shyness overcome you. Just talk to her, if your in her classes ask her about the homework or if you can borrow her notes and then start a conversation.

Answer 2

ok well i totaly know what you mean by the stomach thing happens to me all the time so yeah just ignore it and go for it yeah it will hurt while you talk to her but when you finish talking to her it will eventually go away but you won't care how bad it hurts because you will be happy you ACTUALLY TALKED TO HER! a good saying for you is this... the only way you can loose is if you take yourself out of the game so don't do that just go for it and if she likes you then you really need to make a move because most of the time the girl is waiting for the guy to make the first move come on you can do it you have nothing to loose :)

Answer 3

she definitely likes you, but be weary, girls can be a tricky bunch.
It seems you already have an in with her, so just talk to her, about anything. Girls like when you joke with them too, not mean like, but just be corny and goofy, always works.

One that always worked with girls I know, is walk up to and say "Guess what has two thumbs and wants to go back to bed?" And then point your thumbs at yourself and say "This Guy!". It's corny, yes, but it works. I promise. And once you get a laugh out of her, just start a casual conversation. I swear to you this works, I had your same problem as a high schooler, and developing a good sense of humor really works. As long as you don't take yourself seriously though.

I hope this helps, email me if you need any more help, I love relationship help.

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Answer 4

You need to be Mature enough to be able to Handle Dating . If your asking these questions and your serious . Your not ready yet ..... A mature person would walk up and say hello . My name is (YOUR NAME) and the conversation would grow from there ...Be more strong and don't make yourself look pitiful by just standing there ... Grow up or forget girls for awhile ....

Answer 5

pardon me but get some balls

and just try to be friends with her first

dont jump the gun so fast

just try to be freinds then ease your way in

by the way she may think your cute so its possible

Answer 6

You're not shy, you're a coward. Crash and burn is a time honored male tradition and rite of passage.

Answer 7

sorry about this..but she might just be trying to be nice.. but hey, I might be wrong! Just go talk to her.. don't let your shyness over run you

Answer 8

Just do it. Can't hurt anything by trying now can you?

Answer 9

PUSH