how can i tell if im bi?

Question

i think im bi, but how do i know for sure?

Answer 1

My dear, if you think you are, you are. Do not buy into hung-up people's categories and discrimination. They are just afraid of such feelings in themselves--because they are natural and all of us have them. Act on it and do not fear; just be discreet and cautious, and you will open up a new and exciting world of pleasure for yourself--as I did.

Answer 2

I don't like the sexuality labels because it restricts your sexuality. I believe that everyone is or has the potential to be bisexual if society could be more lenient about labelling sexuality.

If you hold on rigidly to the sexuality labels you would come across a number of problems such as your dillemma. Perhaps you have only been attracted to the same sex once in your life. Some people may argue that you are not bisexual enough; that you have to be attracted to equal number of opposite and same sex before you can be bisexual. I believe that chemistry and a person's personality counts for more than their sex.

Why do you think that you're 'bi' anyway? Fantasy and images of naked women and/or men do not count. Are you currently attracted to a man and also a woman?

Answer 3

A strict definition of a bisexual would be someone who has romantic and/or sexual relations with other people of more than one sex (though not necessarily at the same time.

However, since not everyone has necessarily had the opportunity to act on their sexual/romantic attractions, some people prefer a looser definition; for instance, that a bisexual is a person who - in their own estimation - feels potentially able to have such attraction. This could be anyone who has erotic, affectionate, or romantic feelings for, fantasies of, and/or experiences with both men and women.

A bisexual may be more attracted to one sex than the other, attracted equally to both, or find people's sex unimportant The strength of their attractions to men and women may vary over time.

That's up to you to decide; nobody can make that decision for you, and nobody has the right to tell you your decision is wrong. Bisexuality isn't about whom you sleep with, it's about how you feel; so a good rule of thumb in defining your sexual identity is not what you've done, but what you'd like to do.

Some bisexuals, however, have no such preference, and instead focus their attractions on qualities they see in an individual regardless of that person's sex.

Answer 4

Kiss a girl and a guy.If you feel the same way with the girl as you do the guy,your bi and kiss the girl first then the guy

Answer 5

If you can look at another woman and feel her all over you in your mind and you being all over her then for sure you are bi.

Answer 6

you may just be bi curious, to find out ask yourself how attracted are you to the same sex as yourself. Only time will tell

Answer 7

well if u see a girl walk by and u look at her *** do get horny. or if a girl walks by u and u see her nipples sticking out do u think about what it would be like to lick them?? well then u like chicks if your answers are yes........and odviously you know how to tell if you like a guy.

Answer 8

if you get turned on by a naked chick then it means your a lesbian, you know your bi, when you like a girl and would like to kiss/make out with her, but you still like guys

Answer 9

If you get turned on when you see a naked chick. Then I guess your bi.

Answer 10

When you start looking at women's' behind and start liking it, or when you see a woman you think to yourself I wonder how pretty is her ***** is. I think that should give you an inkling?