this one girl in my school, well shes a real ***** shes always interupting me in a conversation with one of her "Friends", and has drawn more friends away from me than anyone else. and whenever im talking she always says "no one cares okay? anal ******?" How do i get back at her?
2006-10-05 16:23:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just Don't Give A Rat'z A*s!! If u simply ignore-da-who*e! , she'll feel like major crap & stop doin what shez doin... the only reazon ppl act this way iz when the other side ( YOU ) show them they're gettin' 2u. Ignore & Smile & give her the look that u really don't care .. make her feel small & stupid by not even tryin to notice she existz even if shez standing next to u ,, & about the ppl that stopped bein ur friendz after she came in, well,, F*** them, too! coz obviously they're not even worth bein friendz with to begin with.. Have more confidence, Love ur self, don't let lozerz like her get to u, if u let them now, ull suffer from this feelin all ur life.. try to think this way... she can act like a major B****, but THATZ IT ... she cant REALLY take anything away from u ,, & thoze ppl who left u , should have left u for any other reazon coz they werent good friendz & ur better off without ppl like them in ur life .. Just IGNORE HER in a way that makez her feel silly .. smile when shez there, but don't even look or smile @ HER.. just act like she'z a NOTHING & She'll feel like one! TRUST ME!! BEEN THERE, DONE THAT ! :D
2006-10-05 16:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by CupCake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple,
Address her, if you must, as if she were a rude child and treat her as one. The behavior she is exhibiting is one of a spoiled brat with low self esteem issues. When you can, continue to talk to the other person as if she never interrupted you even if she talks over you. Act like she is not even there. Empty space. Her words have no power. When she strikes out at you verbally, simply reply gently that she needs to grow up and get real. Change the subject then. If you see a tantrum coming then keep your self cool and calm. Even if deep down inside you want to play odd or even with every strand of hair on her head don't loose control. Tell her what a loser she is and walk away. It will take the thunder away from her. As for the friends, they are probably intimidated by her and do not want to have any confrontations like what you are experiencing. See the friends when she is not around.
Last but not least, verbal bullying is not acceptable. If all else has failed confront her with her behavior and tell her that she is to leave you alone.
Do not feed her the energy or satisfaction she craves when she bullies you. It will not stop with you being nice but only when you take her power to exist away from her by not reacting to her name calling or bad social manners the way you have in the past. Change the way you react to her and she will have to change the way she behaves towards you.
PS. If gets so bad it becomes humilating then its time to get teachers and parents involved. Do NOT HESITATE to go this route. Holding in the anger will not solve the pain of verbal/mental/emotional abuse. It will only make you depressed.
2006-10-05 16:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by snowelprd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think that i might can help you with your problem. obviously she doesn't like you. and if you want to go with the sabotage route then be very sneaky with it. start out small. try to find some dirt abut her that not very many people know. like super embarrassing and go tell the guy she likes or her boyfriend. that is a good place to start. but u know that is not the right thing to do you should talk to her and if she won't ease up then at least you tried the nice approach and you should totally go for the sabotage route! hope it helps!
2006-10-05 16:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't pay lots interest to the Jonas Brothers, yet they do look kinda poopy. Miley Cyrus appears like a self-based entire in the butt who's in basic terms too grown. (Jonas Brothers look too little one like.) Who do I hate? Courtney Love is gross and ridiculous. of direction every person hates Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie is disconnected from certainty too. lady Gaga sucks!!!! She's so gruesome and untalented. that's it! that's my answer! She had a song approximately dancing and she or he would be in a position to't even circulate. stupid.
2016-12-16 03:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a smart a.s.s, so I'd have to let that come out. If she were to interrupt me, I'd saying something like... "Hold on everyone, [insert girl's name] has something to say and we ALLLL know how important it is when SHE speaks. Go ahead now Honey, everyone is just dying to hear you."
She sounds like a real snot
2006-10-05 16:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by SatinDoll1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freaking punch her in the face
2006-10-05 16:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be extremly nice to her, when someone is mean to another person and that person is nice back it usally makes the guy or girl angry, very angry, i guess since thats not the response they were looking for
2006-10-05 16:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"be nice to your enemies...nothing annoys them more..."
be all goodness and simpers...that'll make her look real bad...and what's more,she'll despise the fact that everyone else suddenly likes you much better than her!
2006-10-05 16:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl like you but did not know how to tease you,she tried to attract you.You can try to test her by date her(Only her without other presentation)
2006-10-05 16:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by antoine huynh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice way of discribe. dono about that but I hope u find your answer
2006-10-05 16:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by jclyons95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋