2006-10-05 16:10:38 · 34 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is always the possibility his shoes were in the closet for years and just recently came out. Sometimes a man hides the fact that he owns Velcro shoes for fear he will be ridiculed and shunned by society. You should respect and love your husband more for having the courage to bring them out of the closet. He may feel comfortable and have close ties, or in this case Velcro closures, to his shoes. For better or worse you have vowed to love and obey, perhaps you also should obtain a pair and share the feeling of Velcro shoe ownership with your man.
2006-10-05 16:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sanitizer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the Velcro shoes, regardless of how hot and steamy the relationship is at first - passion fades. Wait till he becomes a beer drinking couch potato, leaves dirty towels in the bathroom, dumps his shirt on a chair, kicks his shoes off in the dinning room, decides to take a nap when you want him to look after the kids, and the absolute worst forgets to take out the garbage even though the smells is so bad you cannot breathe. Just the beginning babe - more surprises to come.
2006-10-05 16:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might start by getting a life and not being so mellow dramatic. Maybe he has to change his shoes without touching them because of germs. maybe he doesn't want to take the time to tie his shoes 40 times a day. maybe he likes Velcro. If he loves you and you love him I really think that Velcro shoes can be overlooked. DOES he drink , smoke, do drugs. party all night with his friends and leave you alone ? does he beat you or verbally abuse you . Does he lock you in the house and refuse to feed you .I hope you get my drift. Stop whinning about NOTHING or he may be asking how he can stay married to his wife of 6 day who is nagging him about his Velcro shoes.
2006-10-05 16:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please dont' tell me your that shallow. So you dont' like his shoes great for his brithday or christmas buy him a pair thats more suitable.
But you have bigger problems than shoes if your actually contemplating should you stayed married to the guy for a pair of shoes..
What a mistake the poor guy made in picking you out.
And heads up honey marriage isn't all roses. there are going to be much worse things happen that what you have found out with the shoes..
Hope your strong and dont' cave in at the first site of things not right. This person you married has feelings heart etc.. its not like a skirt you buy at a store and decide in 5 days you don't like it anymore.
2006-10-05 18:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding, right?? With all the REAL problems married couples encounter, you're contemplating leaving your husband over VELCRO SHOES??
Give me a break, get a grip, grow up.
2006-10-05 16:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by MaknMeCrzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOODNESS!!!! YOU'RE THE FIRST PERFECT PERSON TO WALK THE FACE OF THE EARTH!!!!!! ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY THAT YOU DON'T OWN A PAIR OF PANTIES THAT MIGHT HAVE DISCHARGE STAINS? YOUR SH!T SMELLS LIKE CINNAMON ROLLS AND YOUR FARTS SMELL LIKE MINT?! YOU'VE NEVER FARTED, PICKED YOUR NOSE, TRIPPED, BURPED, BELCHED, ACCIDENTALLY CUT YOURSELF WITH A KNIFE, PUT YOUR FOOT IN YOUR MOUTH FOR SAYING SOMETHING TOTALLY IDIOTIC LIKE YOU CAN'T STAY MARRIED TO A GUY FOR OWNING VELCRO SHOES FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF EFFICIENCY AND CONVENIENCE!!?? You do know that it is rather annyoing how sometimes shoes come untied no matter how many double knots you make and then you trip. You wanna know what makes that worse, when you work with delicate objects like syringes, sharp blades, glass, etc. GET OVER YOURSELF, YOUR SH!T STINKS LIKE THE REST OF US!
2006-10-05 16:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's wrong with that? Lemme ask u a question, Did u marry him for who he is or what he owns? Cause it seems as though ur looking for reasons to dump the guy. In that case, why marry him if you knew u never really wanted him?
2006-10-05 16:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? If you love him material things will not matter.
Remember your vows (better or for worse). Treat him like you want to be treated. Do you want him to think of you the same way? Or are you the only perfect person on the face of the earth.
Nice to meet you then. "The one without sin cast the first stone."
2006-10-05 16:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. I would say "love him, love his shoes..." But Velcro? Imagine he needed them for a heavy janitorial task or that he was needed to do under cover work. It will make it seem easier to cope with.
Good luck.
2006-10-05 16:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoes? He's got shoes? Honey, where I come from you're lucky he's got a shirt. Treasure the man. Worship the man. Feed the man.
2006-10-06 02:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋