I just met this guy I have class with in the evening. He is really cool guy and I want to get to know him better. I invithed him to come out with me and my friends tomorow night but he told me he had plans. He gave me his number and told me to call him tomorow. How do I get him to come out with me and my friends instead of his?
2006-10-05 16:09:04 · 16 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him
2006-10-05 16:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go out with his friends. Call him like he asked and maybe find out where they are going and 'show up' there. Everyone wants what they can't have-I promise you that, so play a little hard to get. And never ever seem needy-as in wanting him to come out with you and your friends instead of his own. Shrug it off as if you don't care.
Good Luck!!
2006-10-05 16:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by miss_fred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he say he wanted you to go out with his friends? However, if he did, it may simply be that he'd feel more comfortable that way. Maybe he was nervous about going out with your friends, like an outsider. Why not all meet up? You and a couple friends and him and a couple friends. Kind of a group thing. Should be a safe and comfortable environment for both of you.
2006-10-05 16:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first and foremost - he did give you his number. He made you aware that he has a commitment for tomorrow.
SINCE he gave you his digits, I would def. respect the fact that he has previous plans. (at least you know he wasn't just trying to get rid of you)
Attraction confirmed: because you have his number =)
Just call him and talk. Laugh... just play it off... I'm sure you'll get the full story on his plans and THEN - you invite he AND his friends to hang out with you and YOUR friends.
Yes!!! Group date!
2006-10-05 16:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by apinkfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pushy, pushy.....you just met the guy and already you're trying to control him. Let him do his probably pre-arranged plans that he had before he met you and just wait for another time to go out with him. Why don't you just call him up and maybe the following weekend you guys can go out.
2006-10-05 16:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by morningstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy wants to go out on a date with a girl and her 250 friends because he can't be alone with her.
2006-10-05 16:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just let him hang out with his friends. if you just met, its kind of a wack move to try to control him already and determine who he can and cant go out with. he obviously wants to get to know you better, but he has plans.. so just call him when you agreed and hang out with him another night. its better if its just the two of you anyway. im sure hes also not thrilled with the prospect of hanging out with you and your friends as your first date.
2006-10-05 16:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought girls like you usually gave the guy at least 2 weeks before you whipped him.
2006-10-05 16:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him there's something in it for him...... if he goes with you. Then stop at Jack in the box and get him a Burger . You don't want to start lieing to him right off.
2006-10-05 16:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pressure him let him make his own decision if you force him to choose you just might lose to early in relationship you got his number call him see where that goes but take your time
2006-10-05 16:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use his number to call him to do something with you. Not with your friends, not with his friends, but with you.
Invite him to dinner, or if you're not ready for that, brunch or lunch.
2006-10-05 16:19:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋