I have been indulged in masturbation since I was 10. I consider myself to be a heavy masturbater, as I do it a couple of times even now when I am in my thirties.
I think it is bothering me as it has given me awful thoughts, sexual thoughts, just to satisfy my fantasies when masturbating. I have done terrible things, like voyeur etc. just to satisfy myself when masturbating.
Can anyone tell me how I can stop this habit?
2006-10-05 16:06:05 · 13 answers · asked by caterpillar 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
get a life, dude. if all u think about is pulling it, then u got nothing else better to do. u're a sex addict, and u're addicted to yourself
get a hobby, sports or other social activity where you'll meet other people, hopefully women, and find yourself a partner to play with, and you can dump your right hand.
we all know masturbation is normal, but your situation is getting out of hand (pun intended). get a life, dude
2006-10-05 17:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by livegreennow 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, there are a few things you can do:
For example, find religion and confess your sins - like a Church of Christ for example - those people take things pretty seriously. Out of that, you'll get a support group - they will want you to stop most everything in your life you might like to do - like gamble, look at porn or naked pics of women, drink alcohol, smoke, and yes, tugging the one eyed snake.
The other thing you can do, is find a partner of course - but even that can make you do it more, as you think of your partner when she/he or whomever is not available or not around.
There's nothing wrong with what you do as long as it doesn't get you into trouble and doesn't interfere with normal activities like work or school or friendships. If by voyeur you mean peeping into windows, then you need to find a different way to satisfy yourself or you will get into big trouble. Maybe in your community they have those booths that you can sit in to watch a woman.
Other thing you can do, is just plain stop. I know, "harder" than it sounds, but hey, what are ya gonna do? Find a hobby, get some friends, hang out with them...it's not likely you're gonna do that in front of them!
2006-10-05 16:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy, but as a female, I do masturbate a lot too. There's nothing wrong with that and I think it's pretty normal. It seems you're not sexually active with another person and that you're only restricted to fantasy. Maybe you should discuss this with someone you trust. Another way is to keep yourself busy with a hobby, sports, etc. Remember, your brain is your biggest sex organ, you can control it.
2006-10-05 16:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by MaTriX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only in America do they make a poor guy like you crazy for doing what comes naturally. The more you try to stop it, and the more self-loathing you put on yourself, the worse you'll be. Masturbating is a good thing, as long as you keep it in an appropriate venue.
2006-10-05 16:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to stop religious reasons consult your rabbi or priest or minister or spiritual leader.
i dont have any tricks for stopping. you have to realize, though, you should worry if you didnt masturbate or have sexual thoughts. most people do it more than that and start earlier than that. we are very sexual creatures and after puberty crave sex constantly. there's nothing wrong with that, consider it a blessing.
2006-10-05 16:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by vladkeren44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation in and of itself is not wrong...i would say that ure prob just a sex addict. you need to try to channel ure energy into other things and not let your mind arouse u so much. If you have problems u should see a therapist
2006-10-05 16:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by james p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engage in sports or activity that lets you release your energy out. When you are tired, you will reduce your thoughts in wanting to masturbate.
2006-10-05 17:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gary S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....it's normal. And I do it myself despite a healthy sexual reltationship w/my spouse. Some people are just sexual like that.
2006-10-05 16:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i guess you could find a substitution for that habit find something else you enjoy and do that alot
2006-10-05 16:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by liljov2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a girl and have sex with her and ull stop
2006-10-05 18:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by 20ebhs09@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋