2006-10-05 15:57:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have 3 great little boys i want the best for them my oldest is not his but the other 2 our he treats them all diff. he said my 4year old is a fag the middle one is a daddys boy and he says my newborn does nothing but cry he does nothing but sit on his but and play the xbox dont help at ALL with the kids and he is a slob dont pick up after him self
2006-10-05 16:17:07 · update #1
I know you have kid's,and your staying with him because of you children.If you want a happy life you need to be strong and tell him how you feel. Good luck, and God Bless.
2006-10-05 16:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Full Moon Fever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are pretty straightforward. Tell him that you are done with the fighting and craziness and he needs to get out. He may try to argue with you and may try to intimidate you. But stick to your word. If you are serious about him leaving and aren't just looking for a way to make him beg, then be honest with him. And remember, in the long run, possessions aren't as important as your own safety, peace of mind, and future happiness.
2006-10-05 23:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a question. Is the house yours and your husbands? Just remember that when you throw him out, his paycheck goes with him. Which really doesn't matter if you make the money anyhow. Just some things to keep in mind.
2006-10-05 23:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by swcasper2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911
2006-10-05 23:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and tell him that things are not working out and you would like for him leave. You may also have to consider being the one to leave.
2006-10-05 23:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant be honest with you husband and straight forword then you are very immature and never should have been married in the first time. just tell him straight up the reason that you want him to leave. and if he doesnt change then you want a divorce.
2006-10-05 23:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by pinklover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you argue. When I"d had enough, I said point blank, "I want you to move out! I want a divorce!" Now he is fighting me for everything. But he isn't in MY house!
2006-10-05 23:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and form the words...be prepared for some resistance though...is he the violent type?
2006-10-05 23:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "dont let the door hit you where the good lord split you"
2006-10-05 23:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by gene_harden2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him things aren't working out like you hoped they would and you feel your relationship is over and he needs to go.
2006-10-05 23:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋