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you cook clean take care of the kids why i sit on my butt and do nothing

2006-10-05 15:55:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

iv tried to talk to him he just sit on the xbox and yes he has a job but iv ask him to watch the kids why i work 2nd shift we can not afford a babysitter he wont do it the he yells at me because all i do is stay at home with the 3 great little boys i have 4 2 and newborn its hard to be a teenmom he just dont understand

2006-10-05 16:25:24 · update #1

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i just think that you are leting him.but in the bible hes the head of the house hold but he also have respct you as a wife.when your married everything is together yall are one.just like me and my fiance we do things as a family,we eat together, we take turns i do the girl and he do the boy like given them a bath.doing things together bring a happy home.i know i dont want my husband to let me do everything.i know that he will help me out.just pray hun over him.tell him how you feel about whats going on.the more you talk then the more you might see a change in your house.i know that you will like a day like hell we all do.but i do think that he needs to help out more.

2006-10-05 16:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0 2

Not my hubby......But why doesn't he use s rubber if he won't take care of his kids....He should be happy to get a little time with the kids....

Maybe you should swap roles and let him stay at home while you go to work. See if he'll like that. Believe me in a week or 2 he'll beg you to stay at home, and if he's man enough he'll apologies to you and help around the house more often.

Its very hard job raising kids especially if you a teen mom...

2006-10-05 23:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0 0

Sounds like you have a real winner. My bf isn't lazy like yours. Mine built our house (6 car garage / 2800 sq ft) while working a full time job in 11 months.

2006-10-05 23:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by SatinDoll1976 3 · 0 0

we have to look at things from the other's perspective to understand, or at least, come close to understanding why they're behaving poorly. men are all about being direct though. if you want him to help, just speak up and ask him. this way, you will know if he really does care and want to be a part of your life, your family, your children's father. you can't expect men to read our minds, and then get pissed at them when they don't deliver what you expect from them, without first letting them know up front. hope this helped!

2006-10-05 22:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 1 0

that's sad , does he work and support u all?if he does then u should not complain , maybe the guy is tired from work , give him a break and be thankful he works if he does , if he don't then kick him out, if u love him so much to let him stay , then quit complaining, no man likes a nag

2006-10-05 22:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by cc 4 · 0 1

OMG yes. they all do. my mom has always said its their way or the highway. who knows its definetly a manly testosterone thing. we just don't understand.

2006-10-05 22:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Get your butt in gear and help.

2006-10-05 23:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0 0

Depends...... If he pays the bills then so be it.... If he doesnt than leave him

2006-10-05 22:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy h 4 · 1 0

NO MY HUBBY WAS THE SAME WAY BUT HE IS DECEASED NOW , WELL HE WASN'T MY HUBBY BUT MY SOLE MATE. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN , MEN ARE ALL ALIKE

2006-10-05 22:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 3

welll ur a teen mother with 3 so most likely ur black//so ur boyfreind must be black and black guys are Lazy so yea thats normal

2006-10-05 22:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 5

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