There is this boy at school and he is super cute but he always talks to me as a friend but I flirt but he just doesn't get it. I know he likes me (the reason I know is that a friend told me and he keeps looking at me when I look away) but I just can't get him to admit it. Please help me. I need some fashion tips eother that or very good advice!
2006-10-05 15:47:33 · 6 answers · asked by hxcdancinnnnnn. 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
If you are too tired flirting be straight and ask him directly whether he likes you or not. But, if dont have the guts, ask your friend to ask him what he feels about you. May be he feels for you but hesitant to tell you. So bring in a mediator to make things easy for you.
2006-10-05 15:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I wish to mention that my perception is wholly speculative, I haven't any enjoy with relationships whatever. Is he a primary timer such as you, or has he had disorders in relationships ago? If a kind of is correct, it possibly an dilemma, and I'd lean in the direction of dumping him, of direction with all matters regarded. Never sell off anyone until you are certain past a shadow of a doubt that there IS a crisis and it maintains to persist, whether or not despite his efforts or considering that of his overlook. How would he no longer comprehend it was once from you? If he had been wise he might connect a reputation in your quantity in his contacts and that crisis might on no account come up. Either it was once a dumb factor on his aspect, or he is screwing with you and his excuse would had been made up immediate. For now, shall we say he isn't so wise, and transfer directly to the moment factor. The best factor I can count on here's that he thinks you did not fail to remember and simply left him at midnight. If so, 3 texts and a hate textual content afterwards is a little immoderate on his aspect, to mention the least. If I had been you(and a lady at that), I might supply him a choice, and as soon as I obtained a maintain of him I might attempt to transparent matters up. Personally I do not realize why a few folks textual content extra by and large than they name, however that is my opinion. First, I might ask him if he remembered why I forgot to textual content him, and inform him if he did not understand. Second, I might check out to set up an know-how. I might ask him first if he had me named in his contacts, and to take action if he hadn't. Then, I might inform him that he does not have to fear if I forgot to textual content him, there may be constantly the next day. If you think creeped out or uncomfortable with something to your courting, it is constantly nice to be up entrance approximately it! Tell him your issues. If it occurs once more, lay it out at the line for him, inform him that it demands to give up in any other case. When you transparent the air with a crisis in any courting and it nonetheless persists, you have to give up and weigh the professionals and cons. You can preserve the relationsip and reside with the crisis, or you'll sell off him and uncover anyone else. If he shits a brick whenever you fail to remember to answer, then he is being obsessive.
2016-08-29 07:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 26 year old male and I can tell you unless he is very sure that you like him he will not ask you out. No man likes to be rejected it is probably his number one fear in life. To ask a girl out you are putting your feelings out on line and they could be accepted with positive reenforcement such as you would say yes, but there is just as likely if not more of a chance in his mind that you will say no. Men for the most part are alot like George McFly off of back to the future very unsure about how likable we are. Just as most girls think they are fat or ugly (wich is almost always not true) guys think that they are not good enough for that girl. Another thing is guys are truly dumb when it comes to what women are thinking. What you may percieve as flirting he may not even realize for more than one reason. The way men and women communicate are completely different. If you are not absolutley obvious in what you are try to convey to him he will not get it most likely. By this I mean not twirling your hair or smiling at him or looking at him all the time I mean maybe compliment him on the way he is dressed or on somthing he did that you liked. Another reason it is so hard for guys to pick up on the fact that a girl likes them is their is not a set book of guide lines for what is flirting. For instance some girls will smile at a guy they like and call it flirting where as other girls just smile at the guy just to be nice. I am sure this is also the same for women trying to figure out a guys thoughts about herself, but it does seem that girls are alot better at dicerning these type of things. One way theat you could possibly encourage him to ask you out on a date is in conversation sometime ask him what he is doing that evening or on friday or the weekend and just happen to slip inj there that you are not doing anything and this should give him a good clue that you would like to do something with him and hopefully he would ask you to go and do something with him. By doing this you make it really easy for him to ask because he does not have to come up with all the conversation to get to the part about asking you out. If this doesn't work you could always be more foward with him and just tell him we should get together and do something some time. If he does not respond to that he probably really is not interested in you and you would be better off looking for someone new.
2006-10-05 19:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fashion isn't going to help you. He already likes you. Guys are putting A LOT on the line to ask someone out. If you don't believe me, try asking him out.
If that idea scares you, that's what he's going through. Just go "you wanna go get a soda?" or something casual like that. Don't try to make it a big date, just something low key to snag his interest. Good Luck
2006-10-05 15:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by awakeatdawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know if he is into you ask. There is nothing a guy is more into than confidence, trust me on this.The best way to get a guy to be into you is to always act like you can do better than him :)
2006-10-05 16:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by azcutie2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just a kid how old are u 12,13,14?? ahh u should ask him out
2006-10-05 15:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Viinna_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋