Isnt it true?........women only!?

Question

Isnt it true that women need to hear how there man feels about them....I have read this, and in my own relationship it has proven true..and the ones I had that didnt work out I now see this was a missing issue on my part!

Answer 1

I wish that I could find a man that has figured this out. Your significant other is very lucky.

That is the key, most men fail to see that women need to be appreciated and loved. Just like men need their egos boosted and to feel appreciated too. If both partners are giving they will have a great marriage, friendship and sex life.

I plan on telling my son when he grows up the trick to keeping a woman happy is to make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in "his eyes". That he could never and would never love anyone like her and that he appreciates everything she does. If he can master that. His significant other will give him her world and be everything he could ever need.

Answer 2

I think both men and women need to hear how they feel about each other. But the key here -AH HA- is that this would only come about if both parties felt the same way about where they wanted the relationship to go. For example, an ex of mine and I broke off our relationship because it turned out that I wanted to take things more serious than he did. In the course of our relationship, he never asked too many questions and he never said too much to me about the serious stuff. Why? Well, because he was looking for a casual fling (in which it is assumed that the serious stuff is left out). So to answer your question, usually it's the women who initiate a more serious discussion, because women tend to want more of a spiritual relationship than most men.

Answer 3

Women are emotion based.... as the lady said we connect to words... it is NOT that we are insecure or must have assurances...it is simply that we are the nurturers and in order to effectively nurture we need to know we are on the right road.

Most men are logic based, they tend to view love as just another emotion and they forget that just a simple sweet word or the phrase "I love how you treat me", can be the icing on the cake for a woman. It is also what helps a woman feel like a woman instead of one of the guys. Of course this is strictly my opinion and I cant say it holds true for all females.

Ideally we should know without having to be told, by your actions and deeds but sometimes, we just need to hear it because it feels so nice.

Don't men like their women to tell them how safe they feel when she is with him, or how good it feels to have you inside of her? I would think that would tell a man she thinks he is virile and manly.

Answer 4

Science is proving more and more that there are tremendous differences between the brains of men and women - differences that impact the way we think, react, process, prioritize, and behave. Women have a larger speech center in the brain than men do making women more talkative, for example (like you hadn't noticed), while men have larger visual and sexual centers, making it difficult for them to not ogle and fantasize about the cute waitress taking your order. Women in crisis are naturally hormonally designed to reach out to one another, while men's hormones actually block their ability to connect to others at times of high stress, hence sending them to their "caves." These simple differences (and so many more) are hardwired into men and women and are not the result of our culture, childhood, or environment. Instead, much of the roots of this "hardwiring" is physiologically in place within weeks of conception. Once understood, men and women can find more understanding and appreciation for one another - no longer misinterpreting their differences to be "disconnects" or personal affronts. The good news is that these very differences are something to be celebrated and embraced, allowing two complimentary skill sets and ways of being to form a more fulfilling union.

Answer 5

Yes your right . although each woman is vary's in what they need and want but the majority want to know there husband loves them. just as husbands want to know.

However women do better on that frequency more so than men. We love to hear nice things . its not just enough to say well i married ya didn't I. women like the nice touches and a man to express how he feels. Makes her feel safe and secure too and knows if she's pleasing him right. Better for a man to inform his wife than wake up one day and say see ya sweety. then she sits dumbfounded wondering what went wrong

Answer 6

A woman loves to hear how her man feels about her, but there are alot of men who can't tell their woman what she needs to hear. My husband's parents were not affection people. They fought every morning for the 27 years that I knew them. But that didn't mean that he didn't love his wife. He just didn't know how to tell her. In turn, that is the parents who raised my husband. He will buy flowers and stuff like that, but sometimes I just need a hand to be held to feel his love. But words don't come that easy and knowing his family, I know why and accept that. He sometimes gets a card and writes he loves me. I would love to hear it every time we leave each other but I still know he loves me.

Answer 7

I think this is so true becasue women are insecure by nature and love to know that they are loved and cherished. I mean it doesn't have to be every minute of every day but at least once a day. It makes us feel special, important and loved.

Answer 8

I could never be told enough. We need to be shown, but hearing how you feel about us makes a big difference too.

Answer 9

yes, it is true. I like to hear that my man is madly in love of me, even though it might not be truth but....still I would love to hear it from time to time.

Answer 10

Communication is important, but it still needs to be tactful. There are always things that are best kept to yourself...like you don't have to mention everything that irritates you.