It all started when I got these secret admirer stuff.( this happened two days ago when I started geting this stuff). Today there was a note that said some inapropriate stuff like I want to have sex with you. I'm really scared of this secret admirer I even went to my school counselor for this. Please I need your help.
2006-10-05 15:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by laurieanne4@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, you were absolutely right in going to the school counselor.
Ask around, preferibly to other girls or boys you trust are not the secret "admirer" and see if they know who left the note. Explain that if they do know and are keeping it a secret for his behalf, it isn't worth it because of what the note said. If you have any inclination of who it may be, take the note to one of his teachers and ask if he/she recognizes the handwriting.
Good luck and stay safe.
2006-10-05 15:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by tribe2437 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are going through is just plain mean and cruel. Please, if you have not done so, take all the stuff (any letters, etc.) and show your parents. Then contact the police. File a complaint. It sounds like a stalker. Even if it's a bunch of sick twisted classmates having some fun at your expense it's still against the law and quite frankly creepy. The sooner who ever is doing this is outed, the sooner they can get help with the warped mind they have.
Good luck hon.
2006-10-05 15:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by snowelprd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just watch your back, and make sure you are always with a friend or family member in a safe location at school or while shopping. keep your doors and windows locked at home, don't talk to strangers, and don't let anyone into your house while you are alone, unless it's one of your girlfriends. if out at night, be sure you aren't alone and that you are in a well-lit area with other people around. don't walk too close to parked cars and never park in isolated areas or areas that are really far from your destination.these are good rules for any woman to live by, and they won't let you down.contact your local police or sheriff's department for safety tips for women, and you may want to enroll in a personal safety class. do you carry pepper spray or a loud whistle on your key chain? these items could help too. good luck, and always think about safety, even when you aren't in a frightening time in your life.
2006-10-05 15:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably some young stud that likes your looks. Can't say much about his respect for you though....which means that he probably doesn't really like you that well. Don't let him scare you. Keep your eyes open and see who oogles you a lot. Tell your "close" girl friends to keep their eyes and ears open. Might even be one of them doing it.
There is always the possibility that is a girl that doesn't like you and is trying to torment you. Don't let them succeed. Keep your eyes open, stay alert and show up at un-announced times in the places where you find the notes. You might just catch him/her when they leave the note. Stay in touch with the councelor. Good luck. Pops
2006-10-05 15:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your School will not help call the cops and tell them you are worried that you may be raped, show them the evidence.
If you have enough money you can hire an attorney to find out who wrote this stuff and issue an injunction on them, plus the culprit will probably be arrested.
2006-10-05 15:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by froggy010101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the handwriting is it good legible, or firm and fast, is it feminine or masculine, typed or printed are each of the notes by the same hand, look at your classmate handwriting, help a teacher with papers and check writing
2006-10-05 16:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't walk alone, always ask your friends to accompany you. It is good you have talked to your school counselor..If it getting worse, you should call police also..If not necessary, don't go home late. Remember, don't let this freak guy think that you scared. Show him you are brave..it'll fade him out..good luck..
2006-10-05 16:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by yanti b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your eyes open. telll the princible, your parents, and even the police. i would consider carreing pepper spray with you or some small kind of defense. hope for the best
2006-10-05 16:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Marcus. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with a guy who looks strong and powerful or looks like he can kick ***.
If this does not work buy a tazer gun or mas.
2006-10-05 15:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by LaLo 713 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are that affraid talk to your parents and the police. Good Luck
2006-10-05 15:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋