Have you or someone you've known worked out a domestic violence situation?? Maybe they got help or worked on their controlling issues.
2006-10-05 15:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very rare - Love isn’t always easy, but you should never have to work at how you feel. There are enough complications in navigating the communication barriers, compromises and vulnerabilities between two people to have to worry if your feelings for each other are legitimate. Your affection for each other should be the force that makes everything else worthwhile. If you think you’re convincing yourself that he’s good for you, convince yourself to take a step back and reconsider.
2006-10-05 17:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine any relationships like that working out, unless something drastic happens to change the guy. I have a friend who was with an abusive guy, physically and emotionally, and she broke up with him and started dating again. He promised to get better, so they got back together. And believe it or not, he hasn't hit her since! Also, I'm pretty sure her dad threatened to kill him, so that influenced him a lot too! Most of the time though, I would think the pattern doesn't change.
2006-10-05 22:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by MegW12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a domestic violence marriage and no they dont get better they seems to for awile and then it is right back to the same ole crap, If you are in that situation get out, and be safe and remember Love don't punch slap or make you feel worthless. and get some help.
2006-10-05 22:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother has been in two abusive marriages. The only way she felt safe was to get out of the relationship. If there are children involved look out for the best interest of the child(ern). But remember marriage counciling is always an option.
2006-10-05 22:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by ashleyncurtis06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple who had horrible problems and after 3 years of seperation and counseling were able to get back together and have a happy marriage to this day
2006-10-05 22:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by what do you think? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. i was in one. and as you can see i said "WAS" past tense. they dont get better unless the 2 people involved...WANT to work it out and get help. you either get counseling together or go to church together. thats the only way it''ll work cause i know people who have made it by doin those 2. regardless...you BOTH need help!
2006-10-05 22:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Becky S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very rare that domestic violence will change.
2006-10-05 23:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by kaitlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋