I'm 15.I'm a freshman in high school.There is a big group of girls that don't like me.The weird thing is,they don't know me!! My mom told me they were jealous,but I don't c how or y.Could some1 help me get these b!tches off my d@mn back??!!
2006-10-05 15:07:55 · 20 answers · asked by Abby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Parisgirl,if I wanted an immature asswhole's opinion,I would've asked 4 it.1 day,reality will smack u in the face.Life's not all about popularity,and once u ger out of high school,the only person that's gonna give a **** about u,is urself.U taught me a lot.To never be like 1 of them.They hide their insecurities by hurting ppl-it's pathetic.Maybe when u grow up and stop acting childish,we can have a real convo.
Thanx 4 helping me realize that these girls r immature snobs with nothing better 2 do but be retarded jerks.U're gonna be 1 of those ppl that's fat,ugly,and has no life when it comes time 4 the High School reunion.Karma is a *****.U just watch.U'll be the sorriest piece of **** there ever was.
2006-10-05 16:29:50 · update #1
Thank u,Sweetcitywoman2002.U helped a lot.But,I know these girls don't like me.They don't only whisper things when I go by,they say stuff 2 my face,and make my life living hell.
2006-10-06 09:35:36 · update #2
Ignore them..the worst thing you could let them know how you feel.
Walk away from them any means possible, and just ignore it, it can be bad at times, but whatever you do, don't let it bother you =) Their immature.. don't let them get you down to their level.
2006-10-05 15:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stick with a group for safety purposes. These kids can be crazy.
Make sure you are not tailed or followed home or around after school. Also, if your school has a responsible principal make it known to him or her that you are worried. But classmates are key in getting past this type of problem. Strength in numbers. And ignore them as best you can. They will eventually leave you alone.
Hang tough. Freshman year is both terrific and terrifying.
2006-10-05 22:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems just like yesterday, have some class. go to the bulletin board and post a win a date with you contest, put afew request in it and post it. that should get their attention. then remember the proms around the corner and some of these duckings are ugly but there your friends in time believe me so they'll be worse than ever but they'll Be eating out of your hand cause it take balls to lay down the want to an unorganized world of school and post a win a date contest and play it up.it will play down the problem with the above girls and not hurt their game
2006-10-05 22:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pick out the meanest & biggest of the bunch and whip her sorry @ss. Don't do it with the other girls around or you'll get ganged. Sucker punch her -HARD- and before she can recover her wits, pound her into the cement.
Sounds cold, but I can guarantee that she or the other b!tches will NEVER bother you again. People like that are ALWAYS brave in a group, but when you get them one, they back down just about every time.
2006-10-05 22:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do they pick on anyone else? Or single you out?
You need to get a network of other friends, quick. That way, when they start being the idiots they are, you will have some back-up. When they start mouthing off at you, just briefly look at them, go, "Whatever, morons" & just keep walking, or talking, or whatever you were doing. And, if things continue, rpt them to the school counselor.
2006-10-05 22:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore them chicks. You should feel good that there is something so special about you that makes a group of girls that dont know you dislike you. Like your mom said they are obviously jealous of you. As long as they dont touch you, let them keep hatin on you. Don't worry about them. This world is full of haters. You can't stop living your life bc of them. Your main focus should be your education and enjoying high school.
2006-10-05 22:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hah. I know what you mean man. Annoy the HELL out of them. When someone doesn't like me, i make it a personal ode to know how i feel. Tell them you love them, pass them love notes in class, use a gay lisp and pretend you're gay. It's sure fire to make them stop messing with you. Also, hang around different people, if you're in a group then you have your group to back you up. IF you dont wanna lose your masculinity. just laugh, call em sluts (make sure they dont have boyfriends/big friends). Other than that, ignore them. If they're ruining your life, take action into your hands you know? just tell them you dont want to be ****** with and they have no right to even talk to you.. =]
2006-10-05 22:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You seem really upset, because you refer to them as bitches.
It might be possible that one of the girls from that group likes you or has a crush on you, and they are giggling and acting in a way that might be giving you the impression that they are talking bad about you.
If in fact it is true that they don't like you, you will have to completely bore them by not paying attention to them, otherwise you give them ammunition to continue on.
After all it is no fun if, the person is not responding.
Chew gum as you walk by them to help you relax.
But, truly, I think these silly girls like you.
Girls don't usually waste there time on guys they don't like.
Ever been on a subway or bus and someone is looking at you?You always think they are thinking something bad.
But, do you look at others and think bad things all the time.
You may be thinking you like the way they dress etc. etc.
But people always think someone is thinking negative, just because they are looking.
Same with people laughing...people always think they are being laughed at. But, it could be all good.
Stop thinking your a target of someone they dislike.
You are probably a target, because someone has got a crush on you, or maybe everyone of them girls does.
Try not to be so uptight.....blow a kiss at them, watch them get all silly. Or wink, that will confuse them.
Your in control of your life, not them. Only except that all is good.
Unless someone directly tells you something nasty, then bore them by ignoring them.
It is hard to control a group of young silly girls that act like that.
But young girls around your age, don't know how to behave around guys either. They don't know how to come across when they like a guy. And these girls are not doing a very good job of it.
But, it is a test on your part to them how you react.
So, just be cool about it and either something will come of it or it will just eventually burn out.
If your not interested in them, then just be cool. Although that will make them want you more.
2006-10-05 22:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I say what you need to do is show them your not a girl to be messed with.Stand up in class or when a lot of people are around and say I'd like to ennounce this years schools sluts and all their names.
2006-10-05 22:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
avoid them at all costs and if they try to talk to you, act irritated or act like it is a strain for you to even talk to them. A popular attack these days is for them sometimes to ask if you're gay. Just reply with something like, "not the last time I checked"
If they're nice to you, be nice to them but make sure you don't go anywhere with them.
2006-10-05 22:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by DexterLoxley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋