I'm 19. I've come to realize that all I do is work & go to school. My best friend lives 3 hours away & I don't have many close friends near me. All my boyfriend & I do is sit around, he's not into the club scene & complains about spending $. When we do go out it's to get food. I just feel my life is boring when it should be somewhat exciting from time to time. I need to make new friends but I don't want to come off as a weirdo. Any suggests to solving any of these situations?
2006-10-05 14:53:39 · 7 answers · asked by bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. volunteer
2. get a second job for a little while
3. open brokerage account (invest in stock market) its fun game to play and you may have millions in your account in 15-20 years.
4. have fun with life. go into town and say hello to everyone. make new friends by getting phone numbers
5. join a gym. get that right and mighty tight.
6. get a second boyfriend for a little while
7.go to library or book store. learn something like cooking
8. this sunday. go to another church service and say hello
2006-10-05 15:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into volunteering in the community and around your school its a great way to keep busy and meet people with shared interest and do something worthwhile.
You may also want to get a part-time job. That is also a good way to meet new people and benefit at the same time.
You don't have to do clubs all the time, but it is fun once in a while as well as going to a movie or a local park for a picnic...if you don't or can't get your boyfriend off his behind now you'll be stuck at home watching life and the TV forever so GET MOVING! and have FUN!
2006-10-05 15:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW to young to be sitting around!
Join clubs in your area. Volunteer, there are many places that need help.
Take some classes at the school? Learn a new computer program or learn something new for what ever career you are in or want to be in.
There will be a time in your life that you will love to be just sitting around, now does not seam to be the right time!
Good luck and I really hope your b/f is supportive.
2006-10-05 15:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a class (community college or adult education), join the gym, anything to get out of the house and enrich yourself. You'll not only improve your physical and/or mental health, you may meet other people to do things with. Not necessarily guys, maybe female friends that want to go dancing or something. Let your guy know that you're not looking for another guy, you just need to do something for yourself. You're way too young to be sitting on the sofa. Hopefully this will inspire your guy to do something with you, but if not and you DO meet someone else, well, too bad for him. He's got to give a bit in the dollar department, especially if you are both working.
2006-10-05 15:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need a new life. Fill it with things you want to do. Do not expect others to fill it for you, because they are not you. You are at the threshold of life why are you just sitting there waiting for a boy to make you happy. What would you do if you knew you only had 6 months to get all your happiness in? You can not predict what tomorrow will bring. unless you are content to wait for others to do for you, Life is what YOU make it
2006-10-05 15:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do charity work or volunteer somewhere. Like habitat for humanity. I'm sure it doesn't cost anything just your time. And you two can spend time together helping people and meet new people.
2006-10-05 15:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no-brainer, you need a new bf.
2006-10-05 14:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋