im 90 pounds 4'11 and my new boyfriend always puts his hand in my shirt and feels my stomach and my breast. but i get insecure when he does how can i tell him to stop?
2006-10-05 14:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by Pretty in pink 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
YOU ARE NOT FAT BY ANY MEANS. Your boyfriend likes the way you feel or he would never put his hands on you in a negative way. But please let him know that this makes you uncomfortable. COMMUNICATION is the very key that makes most relationships work.
2006-10-05 14:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by diannas_love 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT fat! You are SKINNY! I HATE when girls say "im fat!" I mean STFU! I'm friggen 5'1 and 140 pounds (granted, I am 8 months pregnant). You dont even know what its like to be close to fat! Do you get out of breath walking through a store? No... so your not fat!
But anyway.......... he is not feeling up on you to feel your "so called fat rolls". He is feeling on you so he can get some action. If you dont like it, tell him to stop. If he doesnt stop, then he has no respect for you. Dump him. Its your body and you should only do what is comfortable to you.
2006-10-05 21:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you're not fat and second, are you old enough for your boyfriend to be doing that to you? If you don't know how to tell him to stop then you're not old enough to have a boyfriend that thinks he can do that to you.
2006-10-05 21:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i no a girl at my school thats 4'11 and 101 pounds. YOU ARE NOT FAT!!
2006-10-06 00:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first your deffffinetly not fat. for your height, your the perfect weight. as for your boyfriend. if you two are close enough where you bf thinks he can touch you like that you should be close enough to tell him to stop. gl
2006-10-06 00:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by nrmlpplscareme47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is a great weight for your height.... and as for your boyfriend you can tell him straight up that its doesnt feel comfortable when you touch you in such a way... or if u dont wonna be rude about it or anthing well he does it brush him off by laughing and moving his had about it at the same time tell him that tickles and just laugh it off......
2006-10-06 00:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Aquarius 3207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you are definitly not fat you are a good weight for you size. You need to gain a little bit more. If your boyfriend touches you and makes you uncomfortable tell him that. Say please stop I don't feel that comfortable with you when you touch my chest.
2006-10-05 21:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if anything you are underweight. 90 lbs at 4'11 in high school is not overweight!!
2006-10-09 17:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by jen. (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u way to little maybe even just right be happy ur boy friend is doning that he loves u and hes showing u not to be insucure that he luvs ur body and ur sexy to him if u feel that bad then ask him what he thinks of u
2006-10-06 17:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and if he really respects you then he will understand and stop
2006-10-05 21:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋