Why do they hate me?

Question

Everytime I say something to my friends they act like they didn't hear me, They are always ignoring me as if I were dead. Sometimes they make fun of my voice. They say I sound like a baby or a mouse. I always feel hurt but I don't show. That's why I don't participate in class as much. I hate my life and I wish I was dead. I don't even thin kanyone would care if I died. What should I do with my life? I don't want to end up being a loner.

FYI. I'm only in sixth grade. Plus, I'm not the mean or annoying one. I rarely even talk to anyone. They ignore me.

Answer 1

first of all, those people aren't your friends. they have low self-esteem and they think they can make up for that by putting other people down and hurting them.

you need to have confidence. it's tough to start having confidence, but i have found that if you just go to school and pretend you're confident, it really works! you should be able to participate in class and be yourself and not worry about what other people think of you. it's sad that that's the way it works. but you know what? after high school you're never going to see these people again (more than likely) so what do you have to lose? you haven't even lived your life yet, don't quit now. you have tons of things to look forward to.

get out there and if your peers don't like it, **** what they think!

Answer 2

You need to get some new friends, if they are ignoring you and making fun of you then they obviously don't care, but you know what there are so many people out there you can become friends with, get some outside activities away from school, like church, and meet friends there, get involved in a hobby or sport and meet like minded friends there. You don't have to be a loner unless you want to be and it is their loss not yours find people who really care, and of course your parents or siblings and extended family would most certainly care if something happened to you, and alot of others too, you would be surprised at who notices you when you don't notice, chin and head up be proud and decide "I am making new friends and nothing is going to hold me back", good luck hon!

Answer 3

Option 1: tell your parents or a trusted adult in school (teacher, counselor, etc.).

Option 2: I have seriously incompetent sinuses, and a seriously sinusy voice. On the one hand, people have made fun of my voice. On the other hand, I can do a fairly decent impression of Mary Travers (of Peter, Paul & Mary; I was seven when I got a hold of the record and it was not particularly new then) and a kick-butt impression of Jean Stapleton in the role of Edith Bunker ("All in the Family"--"Mis-tah, we could use a man like Hoi-baht Hoo-ver a-gain"). Make your sinuses work for you.

Option 3: Take voice lessons. Sometimes, what helps your singing voice can do things for your speaking voice.

Option 4: Find new friends(?). :-(

Answer 4

If you are in high school the best thing you can do is tough it out. High school is a big deal and it is hard at that age. Find some friend that like you for who you are. You need to start standing up for yourself. Confront your friends about the way the treat you and if they reject you, then at least you know how good of friends they are. High School is not going to be the best time of your life. Once you are out of the place you will see a whole other side to the world and it gets way better once you are out of that hell hole.

Answer 5

Sounds like you need a new group of friends! Sure, someone would care if you died. What about your mom? Your grandma?

Get involved with new groups of people. Try some new activities in school, church youth group, or in the community.

If your voice is unique, use it to your advantage and audtion for voiceovers, radio commercials or animation!

And if your classmates judge you solely on your voice, well, they need to get a life!

Answer 6

Elenor Roosevelt once said that:"No one could make you feel inferior without your consent." Please begin to realize that you are a unique individual and what your friends say about you does not determine who you are or will become in life. Do not be eager to curse yourself with death. Life is way too precious and way too beautiful for you to be eager to die at such a young age over such matters. It's true that no man is an island, so you should find friends who support and encourage you. No doubt this will be hard but life is about falling down because we learn to pick ourselves up later.

Answer 7

Hey I'm a goth and I would like too talk to you more presnally I'm 16 My advise your probley hanging out with the wrong friends. I don't really think you wish you were dead. I know I thought that for awile but I t was just out of depreshion. I don't think you need friend too be happy trust me I don't have any. If you know how too write me it wuold be good to write you.

Answer 8

First of all you dont need friends in this world.
they wont gwt u anywhere if they arent real friends and they dont seem like real friends if they make fun of u.
If they keep doing it then all i could say is make some new friends, find someone how likes u for u and like u for your personality.
and another thing, dont wish u were dead, theres many people who wish they could have somewhere to sleep and food.
*coming from a 15 year old*

Answer 9

if you wish you were dead, kill yourself or just STOP F*IN CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU. tell your friends to get pregnant and kill themselves or something. you think you're a loner? Im 13, and a junior in high school. how do you think i feel being the only kid half-way through puberty? just study hard get a good job and when they resort to prostitution through pennies at them. it will make you feel better. but seriously, stop caring, you dont need to be an attnetion whore or just a plain old whore to have friends.

Answer 10

Some people like to treat others like crap...its a sick habit. They are not your friends if they treat you bad. Ignore them and work on yourself. Feel good, look good and do good. There are many like you who have been left out....get friendly with them and form your own group.

And don't hate life because its a blessing to be alive. Trust in yourself and be more confident.

And know that those who snub you are really very insecure people who feel 'oh so very threatened!!'

Don't care about them. Life is precious and you are precious because God made you. He has made each of us unique and we each have to be proud of who we are.

To want to kill yourself is to be a coward. You are a very brave person. How do i know that...well only a brave person can put up with jerks like those ;o)

So be happy and God Bless You.