i really liked this guy since last year should i tell him? or not? because i'm too scared i might ruine our friendship
2006-10-05 14:18:15 · 8 answers · asked by _ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dress provacative.... he will notice you and will ask you out before any other guys do....unless he's gay...
2006-10-05 14:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the worst thing that could happen? He will tell you that he doesn't like you that way! If you two really are good friends, this won't matter to him, and you two can carry on your relationship in a platonic manner. Moving your friendship into a more intimate relationship can sometimes fall out in the end - you have to see that that is a possible outcome. Then again, you will never know unless you try: you'll never know if he really likes you back, or if maybe you two really had something special. So I say "go for it" Talk to him - subtley - and just see what he says.
2006-10-05 21:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by richie.tenenbaum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is always talking about how you only have one life and that you should live it to the fullest and not miss out on anything that may bring you happiness. Well if you ask and it ruins everything, then he wasn't really a friend to begin with. You should be able to discuss everything with a "friend" but if not, then forget everything and move on to someone you can........
2006-10-05 21:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ended up going out with my best friend of 4 years, and we're about to hit our four year anniversary. Give it a shot, but don't get discouraged if he doesn't like you that way. It happens, and there's ALWAYS another guy out there, or even, sometimes these thngs take TIME.
2006-10-05 21:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by xxxdarksakuraxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk i mean sometimes u have to take risk i mean what would life be without them. if you like em tell em and then talk to him be like i wanna be with you but if we end up going out then ask em you guys can still be friends if yall break up.
2006-10-05 22:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop little hints and see how he responds to them and if he does respond to them the way u want him to then tell him
2006-10-05 21:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say flirt with him and then see his reaction, good tell him, bad keep him as a friend
2006-10-05 21:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Coke-n-Snickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him just give him hints every once and awhile!!!
2006-10-05 21:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by goincrazy900 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋