,do anybody think theres a future?
2006-10-05 14:13:55 · 14 answers · asked by pamela j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. i am 40, my soon to be ex is 35, and we thought we had it all. but there is a definite gap. it was way too noticeable. But you know as well as i do, that no one can answer that for you, u have to do what you have to do. it may be a beautiful marriage.
2006-10-05 14:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Elly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and my fiance is 35 that is a 14 yr difference he's never been married but he does have 2 children, I have 1 and WE have 1 together.I've never been married either actually I never thought marriage would work for me! We are getting married next year! I don't believe age should matter if you guys are in love, I love my fiance' and he loves me just as much if not more. Why should age be a big deal? You probably don't want advice from someone as young as me, but I don't believe that what people think when they look at you two should matter to you if you really love him. It obviously doesn't concern him what people think! I say be happy and live life and forget what people say and if you just have your own doubts then maybe you shouldn't get married! Just a thought!!
2006-10-05 14:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number, if you find happiness with someone who is 10 years younger or 20 years older, it shouldn't matter has long as that person makes you happy. Don't worry what other people say, you have to live for you and what makes you happy in your life time.
2006-10-05 14:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not men been doing it for years with younger women. and now demi moore and ashton koocher. I personally not into that i like an older man more refined . but some women like the younger men and the sex they bring with them being so much younger but older men if they know what there doing can bring much more experience and pleasure too. as well as if there still higly active in that dept. you still can have a good sex life.
goodl uck all the best
2006-10-05 18:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two get along great then go for it. How long have you two known each other?
I have a brother and his wife is about 13 years older than him, and they get along great. They have been married for about 12 years now.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-05 14:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not men do it all the time.If he wants to marry you and you love him I say go for it.You do need to watch for someone looking for a free ride though.
2006-10-05 14:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is REAL LOVE between the BOTH of you, don't let anyone or anything get in the way.
2006-10-05 14:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two love each other, why would'nt work? You're both adults. Enjoy.
2006-10-05 14:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know lots of couples that way. It is up to yall.
2006-10-05 14:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. He is younger and will last longer.
2006-10-05 15:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋