I have this friend named Kim and she stoped hanging out with me and my best friend jennie. because I dated her friend gio and him and I broke up now she calls me a b***** behind my back and my friends back too. I am not scared to fight its just that this kim girl is 300lbs. kim told me before i was her friend for me to keep me friends close but that people u hate closer. When I go around Kim shes all nice to me what do I do I really need help!!
2006-10-05 14:06:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore her if you can. She's not really your friend, from what I can tell.
2006-10-05 14:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her face to face and just tell her that you've been hearing that's she is talking smack about you behind your back and you want to know why she is all of the sudden doing this. Obviously it has something to do with the guy, her friend, that you broke up with so could be that he has said something too her that maybe you said about her or if it was as bad brake up, maybe she is taking his side on the situation. And just to let you know, size does not always matter in a fight as long as you know how to throw blows, I actually got into a fight years ago with a girl that was almost 300lb and at that time I weight about 110 and I literally whooped her butt! Anyhow, I would go to her and ask her straight up what the deal is.
2006-10-05 21:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Simmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the girl. What goes around, comes around and people will talk about you regardless. I think that she's mad at you because you went out with her ex-boyfriend. They weren't married and she has no right to get mad at him just because he's seeing other people. Fighting her will not solve anything. It'll make the situation even worse. Continue to focus on your education and keep doing your thing. Eventually, this will all be old news and this girl that is talking about you will move on. I hope my advice will help you and your best friend. Best of luck.
2006-10-05 21:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would casually bring it up, like if you had a class together with her or maybe at lunch, if she denies it then i say screw the friendship but if she says something about it, then i say lay it out on the table and get things set straight. hope that helps you!
2006-10-05 21:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by xshutterbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her aside and talk to her about it. let her know how you feel. if she still continues doing that then she isnt worth being friends with.
2006-10-05 21:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel ..but really she isnt a friend at all if she does that. u need to talk to her U and HER. togetHER.
2006-10-05 21:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her u dont wanna be friends with her anymore bc if she was ur true friend she wouldnt do that to you.
2006-10-05 22:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flip her off and say i hate you and challenge her to a fight.
that's what i do
2006-10-05 21:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by justinjst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be her friend don't go near her but whatever you do don't talk crap about her
2006-10-05 21:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by boy_who_eats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her
2006-10-05 21:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by tgtr2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋